Why is anyone outraged at Petaeus anyway? Have you seen his wife??

I disagree, I don't doubt that he has been with plenty of prostitutes.

 

I dunno...I just see a bunch of uninteresting men whining about American women while super hot men like Chris Hemsworth, Christian Bale, and Chris Evans like us just fine.


*shrugs*

 

Fair enough. Anyone can pay to play.

 

Yeah, until they have to pay thousands in alimony once they get divorce. I don't know why wealthy men get married at all. It's detrimental to their financial futures and again, they don't get anything out of it. They can have almost any woman they want, anytime they want. If they do find one they want to keep around, they don't need to marry. Nothing wrong with living with someone. Much easier to kick them out of your house when you get fed up with them. You don;t have to go thru hell to separate yourself from them.

 

[video=youtube;rlvMAS_20K4]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlvMAS_20K4&feature=relmfu[/video]

A more intellectual look from a female.

 

Honestly, you have no clue about the law. Tiger Woods was dumb as (*)(*)(*)(*) for having houses in community property states. He was dumb as (*)(*)(*)(*) for having houses in community property states and then (*)(*)(*)(*)ing 14 women while married to a woman who had his kids, thus making him open for a "fault" divorce.

The same has happened to rich women you just don't hear about it as much because most of them are not so foolish as to chase after and then marry the pool boy.

 

**tries to restrain the fingers from typing an evil comment that is beneath her**

 

Yeah, it goes both ways and there's so many different ways to 'stroke an ego', show each other they're loved and it doesn't have to always be waiting on that person....

You're really bitter towards American women. So you got stung by one, huh? Crap happens, then you move on and don't judge us all by one woman anymore than we shouldn't judge all men b/c of a bad experience w/a guy.........

 

Has anyone rang the wife?

Well.

She IS single...

 

Yeh, it is obvious that there's a back story. We all have them. Hit the button and the vitriol comes out.

 

Marriage is pretty much a broken institution at this point, but to blame it solely on women is freaking ridiculous.

Maybe a 40 year old man who wants to bang a 18-25 year old woman instead and gets caught with his hand in the cookie jar, literally and otherwise, has something to do with it too?

Look, man, I get it if 40-50 year old dude wants to bang a 19 year old woman, or 22 year old, but to do so while married is wrong. Just consider everything and make sure marriage is what you really want before you go through with it.

 

^^Why I love you, Binks.

 

I agree completely. However, when women have made men virtually worthless in marriage, and getting divorced costs him his life's savings and hard work, its no wonder men stay in bad marriages longer then they want and end up having an affair.

 

"Women" didn't do anything. There are a whole bunch of individuals that make up women. The fact that you don't seem to get this means you're part of the problem.

 

I'm part of the solution. I really don't care about what problem women have. If they have a problem with men, then they can live happily with their 12 cats until the end of their days.. But if men have a problem with, specifically, american women like I do, there is a solution. American women make up a very small percentage of the earths population. And, American men are sought after in just about every country, while American women are not. American men that are 40..50...60.. years old can find a 21 year old attractive woman that actually loves them. Because in the societies they live in, there is no social stigma against marrying older men. Many prefer it because the men are established and can provide them with a good life.

Do I care if American women hate that an American man can marry an attractive and sweet woman even well into his 50's... No!! So spare me the insults I know are waiting. They are not original, nor are they remotely true. Statistically, men who marry foreign women have a lower divorce rate.

 

You shouldn't marry if you don't intend to be faithful. When a woman catches her husband banging some 19 year old college chick, I think that's justifiable grounds for a divorce....

 

You're really not when you make the comments you do. I wasn't some house cleaning, cooking, shirt ironing woman before I met my husband. Just an alpha female law student. When we started hanging out...I just became so enamored by him, so respectful of him, so trusting of his ability to make good decisions that I just fell so head over heels that I wanted to do every possible thing I could to make him happy. Cooking, cleaning, attempting (1 time) to iron his uniforms...it's what I wanted to do because he was the greatest human on the planet in my eyes.

We were like two wild horses running in the same direction.

I followed because he seemed to know what the hell he was doing. He didn't have to "find" some subservient foreigner to get his meals cooked. He didn't have to leave his culture. I wanted to make him happy. I cooked even when he said I didn't have to. I did laundry when he said I really, really didn't have to. I attempted to bake until he asked me to please stop.

Women--American woman--are not some panacea of thought. We are individuals who don't always even agree with each other. We're not out there attempting to emasculate men. Maybe some hate men, but obviously after listening to you and some of these others that hate is a two way street.

I just know bitterness when I hear it. And all of this statistical stuff and men have needs stuff...it just comes off as mean and from a place of anger.

 

That's true, and I completely agree. However, things happen. Marriages go sour, people are people and make mistakes. We all have our weaknesses. Fat people cant put down the fork, but are we going to punish them for it.. No, of course not! Should we, well thats debateable considering they consist of the majority of our healthcare spending. Anyway, what I mean is that even the most rock steady men have an innate urge for attractive women. And some men, due to their positions of power or wealth, have women virtually throwing themselves at them all the time. If she catches him at just the right time, maybe a bad spot in the marriage, he may make that mistake. Or, perhaps if the man is unhappily married, he will make that mistake. Should he get divorced if he no longer feels he can be faithfull. ABSOLUTELY!!! However, it is so expensive to do so, many men stay in a relationship they don't want to be in anymore. Or, even better...... JUST DONT EVER GET MARRIED TO BEGIN WITH!!!! Like I mentioned earlier, nothing wrong with a live in partner and seperating is much easier when you don't have to break a contract and drag each other thru the mud to do so which is what the US divorce system forces both parties to do.

 

Yea the old guys are in a dilemma, they were forced to marry in the old days when marriage was a requirement. Now if they want to unload for younger women its going to cost them.

The fair solution would be to keep the marriage, as Hilary Clinton did, and turn it into a swinger deal. Hilary probably made relations with a young Mexican stud, and Bill Clinton had to approve of it.

Open marriages are the way of the futures, and it doesn't have to be cuckold.

 

I never got the appeal of an ultra submissive woman. They have no personality, and act like borderline slaves.

Give me a woman with a personality, that has dreams, desires, opinions, hobbies, etc, any day of the week over a slave girl......

But to each their own, I suppose.

 

Well, unless it's Slave Leia

...*is a nerdvert*

 

Not attempting, no, your right. You are successfully emasculate men.

Its not mean, its true. Basic psychology of men. Men are Firefighters, Front line soldiers ect ect.. These men do not get paid enough to risk their lives doing these jobs to save other people. Why do they do it? Because it makes them feel useful to society. They are protectors of society, a historically male role. And they don't do it because they get paid well, they do it because they are rewarded socially. They are in "Honorable" career fields, the are "Hero's". That is what is missing in American society. Male identity is fading away. The video I posted earlier clearly explains this phenomenon.

 

Yes, this is exactly what I was talking about earlier. A woman who takes care of a man in a traditional sense, is labeled a slave. Its this feminist thinking that denigrates many asian women who just simply have different values. Its racism at its finest.

 

If some guys wife totally no sells her husband cheating on her, that's slave like behavior.

And I said nothing about Asian women specifically.

 

How is that slave like behavior?? I am missing the correlation. I certainly don't condone it, but it's certainly does not have to end a marriage that could be a perfectly good one if the issues were dealt with thru counciling of some sort.