Where are the nice girls who love to help us practice full body massage with happy ending g-spot focus work?
Really, I don't! My realization that many women are game for threesomes (MFF) was a hugely pleasant surprise. I have learned that many women can appreciate other women much as men appreciate women; in terms of physical attraction. Men don't generally share this trait in regards to other men. And I have no idea what butterface means.
Women tend to fall into two groups: 1) First are the women who strongly associate emotions with sex. This is probably the norm. In order to want to have sex with a man, they need an emotional connection. 2) The second group of women can appreciate sex for the sake of sex, like most men do. They don't require an emotional attachment to enjoy a night of raucous sex. Not surprisingly, it seems that a large percentage of escorts and sugar babies are from the second group. And this is why the first group of women generally cannot understand why women in the second group do what they do. So they ASSUME they must be victims. I think marrying a woman who is from the first group is a big risk. When the honeymoon ends, as it always does after the first few years, in many marriages, so does the sex. Then, when the sex ends, they feel guilty and try to shame you for wanting sex.
The internet is depressing. I have talked with dozens of women about this. The women who require an emotional connection generally don't see it. The ones who don't require an emotional connection to enjoy sex, totally get it and agree. I'll even say "you have a sex drive like a man", and they agree. They know it and many have felt put down because of it. In a way it is a crime against men and women. Women with a high sex drive, like a man, are often labeled sluts. Historically they have been treated like there is something wrong with them. I say "Great!" Then I want sluts. It's far better than a prissy miss who cuts you off every time she gets a tude. And I've found they are far more interested in exploring their fantasies. And they tend to be more comfortable with their sexuality than emotional types. When I think back it is kind of amazing really. I have conversations with young women I barely know, that I NEVER could have had with my ex wife. I can talk about my drives and feelings as a man and never feel shamed or put down. Some of this is certainly related to age. For example, a large percentage of young women enjoy porn just like men do. My ex once told me that only perverts look at porn - as her face crinkled up in an ugly scowl. Now, I sometimes watch porn with my dates. The internet has really helped to bring female sexuality out of the closet.
I think that's too simplistic of a breakdown as I've been guilty of both / been the embodiment of both at times... If I were to hazard a guess, us women use y'all more than the other way around & are far more 'calloused' about doing so... My guess 'HWGA' is that U have been 'duped', more than not, by 'feminine persuasion' & many a - spectacularly orchestrated 'show of tears' & 'tease'... Sorry bud, just my $ .02...
And I will raise the ante: Since money is the number one reason for divorce, and since women initiate the majority of the divorces, does that make them sugar babies? After all, it seems they only marry for money. So what's the difference?