Who does a gay marriage hurt?

The children? Does being gay prevent a person from being a caring and responsible parent? No. Or worse, it might make the child gay? Aren't there worse things in life?

The community? Why should anyone else care what people do with there love life as long as it isn't harmful to anyone else?

The country? Unless Jerry Falwell is right and gay people did cause september eleventh, then how is gay marriage detrimental to the country as a whole?