My brother and his wife tried for three years to have a child. Then, they were on a waiting list to adopt for another three years. At that point they were on the verge of being considered too old so they went to China to adopt their daughter. They wanted another, but they just don't have the nearly $20K it cost to get a Chinese infant, and there just aren't enough babies here for everyone who wants to adopt. Sorry for my bluntness but, I think selling baby girls is a big source of income for China.

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