I always end up offending someone. I try hard to fight on the side of anyone I think is oppressed, but I always end up making someone angry at me. If I support feminism, I offend women who work at home. If I opposed it, I would offend feminists. If I claim that only women have a right to express opinions on these subjects, I am ridiculed and accused of being hypocritical or indecisive. If I take a feminist stance, some people claim that I am being patronizing and implying that women can't take care of themselves. I'm really just trying to be one more person standing up for what is right. On the other hand, at least one woman complimented me for my ideas, so I think that some would think less of me if I did not take such a stance. I am trapped like this on every issue regarding feminism. Moreover, I daresay that this post is annoying to some who think that I should be more self-reliant. But if I don't get some answers I'll just keep offending people. What should I write? Please tell me what to write. Thank you very much.

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"I am a Tory Anarchist. I should like every one to go about doing just as he pleased- short of altering any of the things to which I have grown accustomed." (Max Beerbohm)