It's perfectly true alot of mothers get their lives back when the've have a baby in difficult circumstances. It's also true alot haven't. I just personally think it's not fair to force a mother to rip her life apart for a kid.

As far as adoption goes, it doesn't solve everything. A mother's can be be discriminated against just for being pregnant, or she can be abandoned, or kicked out. As far as the actual adoption goes it can cause problems for instance if she's young she can have the social snooping around later, the farther also tends to get larger say after the baby is born and through whatever means (intimidation etc.) can force the mother to keep it. There's also meant to be a sense of motherhood just after the baby is born that would make you not want to give your baby away.

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