just be yourself ... be friendly and engaging ... and relaxed.

flirting is a game, with very nuanced rules. like any game, if you have a weak understanding of the rules, you will not perform well. so, my advice is to forget about flirting, as it probably will not help your situation.

instead, be confident. confidence is to women what sex appeal is to men. first, be a friend. if there is chemistry, the friendship could lead to benefits.

good luck. avoid the game, and win anyway.

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