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Old 10-30-2006, 10:26 AM
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Yo Force, I know exactly how you feel

BUT

It took me several failed relationships to find the flaw in finding a woman who shares your values and beliefs.

You should not be looking for THAT woman, rather the woman whom will accept you for being yourself and will respect your beliefs and opinions, as you can do the same for her.

MY wife is a chinese malaysian. She's buddhist and has strong beliefs and opinions that I dont share. We respect that there is a difference in culture but what we hold dear is that we can peacefully coexist. We've learned a lot from our differences.

What can you learn from a woman who is a mirror image of your own virtues? If she does not share your beliefs you can discuss them, as she can discuss hers and you both will learn (this is given that you can find a girl open minded enough to communicate with like adults)...after all--personal relationships are growing experiences also. There are things that I've walked away from all my past relationships with. You learn from everyone you meet.

Dont rush it, but be able to recognize the opportunity when it arises.
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