The problem I see is that your assets make you perfect for jobs that your liabilites make impossible...
With your intelligence and emotional intelligence you'd make a great salesman or social worker...
But those jobs require the ability to control your emotions, at least some of the time. Most jobs are stressful to some extent.

My suggestion is that you practice a couple jobs that you don't take seriously to get used to controlling your emotions and handling stress. Go part time and maybe take a class or two while you're at it.

The strategy is to defeat your liabilities rather than letting them control you.
Just like how you got yourself out to walk and got yourself to take the GED.

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