If they don't want a kid, dont get pregnant...sure its not impossible, but IMO if you are dumb enough to not use birth control, condoms, pulling out etc.. then you don't deserve a free pass at the expense of a child's life...put the kid up for adoption.

Anyway, this could go on in circles forever, and since in general I agree with you on more points than I disagree with you I'm going to drop it.