what nonsqtr mentioned about spilling seed is what comes to my mind on this matter. there is that one account of onan, who was told to have a child with his dead brother's widow, and he was killed for spilling his seed on the ground. i think there was a similar scenario in another section where the man also refused, but didnt have sex at all, and he wasnt put to death.

now, i dont think the discussion would get very graphic on this forum so i wont take it there, but on another forum where this topic came up, one of the people arguing said anything goes in marriage - i mean anything.

im just interested in knowing what other people think about this subject.

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