Here - it occurs to me, that maybe I'm not being helpful.

I'm giving you "my" take, and maybe you don't want "my" take.

Um... "my" take, would actually be, dont take "my" word for it, but don't take anyone "else's" word for it either.

But I mean, if you're looking for "other opinions", my first though would be, Google keywords like "christian sex". So, like, here's someone's opinion (this is the very first link I found):

http://www.christianitytoday.com/mp/2001/001/4.34.html

Is that, kinda, more what you're looking for? Or, maybe it's a "starting point", you know? If you Google "christian sex" you'll get over 5 million hits.