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Originally Posted by Chesby05
I had an abortion once. I have a medical condition that means that I am on permanent medication. 15 years ago the medications were different to what they are now. I got pregnant while I was on the pill. That sucked. I was very, very sick throughout the beginning of my pregnancy and chose abortion because I was advised that my child had a 1 in 6 chance of being born with Epstein's anomaly, and an even higher chance of spontaneously aborting (miscarrying) or dying after birth or dying during birth and taking me with it.
I chose my life over my 5-week old embryo. Did I want to? No. Of course not. But sometimes we are faced with these choices in life. Pro-lifers often forget this - that pro-life should also include the mother's life - someone who has far more of a stake in this world than their embryo - no matter how much you wish to argue that point.
I was also on a regular contraceptive. I just made (*)(*)(*)(*) sure that I would never, ever get pregnant again unless I planned it. Pretty hard to do when I thought that would work with the pill. Luckily in the last 15 years that has improved too.
This pregnancy was an accident. But I am no longer in any medical danger (although my pregnancy is still considered high risk because of my condition and medication) and so I welcomed my pregnancy and I can't wait to meet my daughter. Likewise - I agree that abortion is not and should never be used as a form of birth control.
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I do not think of this as a callous act of deliberately killing your child. This was a neccisity for your own well being. You could have gone through with the pregnanccy, and it could have killed you, and maybe the child. At least this way one of you is still here. However I think this debate has more to do with the legality of abortion, in wether the mother should be able to kill the child just because she simply does not want it. You wanted that child, that is the big difference between the abortion you had and that of some others.