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I am going to have an abortion next week.
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I don't know if it means anything to you, but I'll be praying for you and your baby.
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Adoption is not an option because of pompus people like yourselfves who would criticize me for giving away my baby but more-so that everyone I know that would see me noticeably pregnant doesn't need to know that I my marriage is going through hardship.
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I would argue that it takes a really great person to admit that they can't provide the environment a baby needs. Its not easy being a parent, but owning up to the fact you aren't ready to be one is a noble action, not something to be criticized over.
I for one, think anyone who would criticize you for saving a baby's life is hypocritical and doesn't deserve to have any holding over how you think of yourself.
The choice is yours, but please just give this option a chance.
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I wish I could give it up for adoption so it could be raised by someone who could provide a stable home but it would raise too many questions my and my husband's mental health is not ready to deal with on a repetitive daily basis.
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There are organizations that can try to alleviate the edge off of these problems. There is no easy way, but what do you have to loose from talking about your problems and sleeping on this decision a little longer?
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I would be considered a high risk pregnancy and would be continually have complications due to the IUD lost in my uterus. On top of that... 80% or more of women in my physical situation abort and there is no reliable data on the safety issues involved. Research did show however, that I am at 50X greater risk of maternal death.Do I not have the choice to not put my life at risk???
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Obviously you have the choice, no one will condemn you for your actions, especially considering your health risks.
There is no clear right or wrong, but giving this sort of thing more time might help you find your own way.