I think that gayness is a choice. So basically when I see a person that has chosen that lifestyle I consider it "acting" gay. Now if someone chooses that lifestyle, while I don't agree with the choice I don't want to take away their right choose that lifestyle either.

On another note, I don't believe that because our laws do not allow them to get married (which I think is the right choice) they should be penalized by our tax system. So I believe that some sort of legal arrangement should be able to made that gives them equal rights to tax-benefits, inheritance and visitation that married couples have.