Soldiers can't pick and choose which orders they follow unless the order is illegal. Furthermore, soldiers can't start or end a war. That decision lies soley with the government. Blaming soldiers for decisions that they cannot change is ridiculus.

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"War involves in its progress such a train of unforeseen and unsupposed circumstances that no human wisdom can calculate the end. It has but one thing certain, and that is to increase taxes." - Thomas Paine