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Originally Posted by The12thMan
How do you know it's his first kid? Maybe he's been there before.
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We all got asked our first lesson. It's the first for all of us.
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Originally Posted by justabubba
maybe you will cut him a bit of slack since (1) he attended with you; (2) it was clearly your idea alone; and (3) he will not be able to breast feed ... those instructions will not change that
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We hadn't even got to breastfeeding. He was reading through the labour part. The Chesboy doesn't have to come to the breastfeeding stuff - I don't care. But if he did come, you can be sure he'd have better manners.
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the midwife did not alter the way she presented because of his behavior, so he did not negatively inflict himself; i think that causes him not to have been "rude". indifferent, certainly ... rude, no
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It is rude. If you turn up to a class someone is running, and then blatantly show them that a book is more interesting than what they have to say, that's rude.
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take this to the bank. they were miffed because he showed the other 5 guys who the big dawg in the room was ... it wasn't them because they were doing what the wife unit expected. they were especially miffed at themselves for not having the gonads to do what Gary did
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Rubbish.
And these men are interested - they ask more questions than the women, for the most part. Except Gary. He's been a dick from the start.
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i wish all 3 of you the best, but lighten up. you are making much too much of this
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Well actually I was in a kind of tongue-in-cheek mood when I started the thread - but I'm pretty amazed that there are people here who think this is perfectly ok.
I mean, it's two hours out of the guy's life, for goodness sake. How hard is it to pay attention?