I'm more interested in why you would have no desire to go? It might not be supportive of the child - but you are telling me you have no desire to support the mother of your child?

Correct me if I'm wrong, but if you agree to have sex, and neither of you use contraception, and you get pregnant, and you agree to keep the baby, how then is it ok for you not to be involved in the process?

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