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It kill's me the people who want to bring All these new Babies into the world won't spend the money to take care of them. Why don't all you Republican Christians start adopting kids with Down Syndrom, or Crack Babies or all the other poor kids with problems??

Why don't the crack whores keep their legs closed. Why don't people who can't afford to have kids stop having them?

You just want to cut Taxes!!!! Well taxes are what pay for the hospitals that take care of these poor kids. You support cutting School Lunch Programs for kids. But you All want to bring them into the world. After Birth the Real work just begins, But you act like your work is over as long as they are born...

Taxes are not in place to clean up messes caused by idiots. Hospitals in most cases are privately run business in place to make a profit.

What about the everyday things like a hug, or a story, or a trip to the zoo, or a Birthday party, or a catch with a ball, WHO... will do that for all the kids you want to bring into the world that no one want's???? (It Sure as hell won't be Christian Conservatives.) They Cut All Funding any Chance they get.

Why is it you get to have sex, get all the enjoyment (if there is any with a crack whore) then you expect me to clean up your mess with my tax dollars then raise your kid?

I'll tell you what will happen if Abortion was (NOT) Legal... We would have State Run Crap holes full of Kids that are underfunded, because the same Republicans that brought them into the world don't want to pay more tax to take care of them........

So your solution is to kill kids rather than growing up and take responsibility for dropping your pants or lifting your skirt?

If you think Abortion is wrong then YOU should adopt at least one Child. If you don't then your just Passing the buck!!!!!!!!
So if I think you killing your kid is wrong I should take care of him for you? I would say I like your thought process but I haven't seen any thought process involved in your post. Did you just find out the crack whore you were with is pregnant?
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Yes but that is not the point I was arguing. I wasn't saying it is ok to kill it - I was saying it's pointless to speculate on whether it would `like' being killed. It wouldn't know. Whether it is ok or not is a different matter and not one to which I was referring.
So its okay to kill it if it doesn't see it coming or if its quick and painless. Watch out blind people. Watch out if your asleep. What is your weapon of choice? MOAB? See when we drop these in Afghan all you libs complained.
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lol. Point proved... again.
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I'm an independent for one thing not a liberal. Just because I think Bush is an incompetent leader doesn't make me liberal, doesn't even exclude me from being republican, I choose to weigh up his actions and determine my own opinion, over blind party loyalty.
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But I've listened to yourself and the rest go round and round for several pages now and it's clear you're not trying to understand each other. You're making your opinionated points with the intention of winning the argument.
I believe that most of us know that this is an argument that can not be won in a debate on the internet. And yes, I am voicing my opinion, but I am attempting to understand the other side. Unfortunately, most of them seem unwilling to answer my questions.

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I made my opinionated point but one of reason that was carefully thought through to encourage people to reach compromise.
While much of the world is covered in gray area, this does not seem to be one of them. Why do I say there is no gray area? Well because you are either killing a kid or you are not. Pretty black and white.

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And "holding accountable those that continue after it is illegal" how do you mean? It's often not possible to do so unfortunately and trying to do such can cause more problems than biting the bullet and starting again.
Simple, you give them options so they do not have to abort, or better yet you educate them so they never get to that point in the first place. But if they do get to the point that they are pregnant, but are unable to support a child (because they were too stupid to take necissary precautions) you let them know that it is ok to find someone that actually wants a child and adopt them out.

As someone already said in this thread, there are many people that want kids that can not have them, but because adoptions are so difficult in the U.S (I know because my wife and I were talking to JAG about adopting, but we can not afford it in one shot, unfortunately, the price comes in one shot). they go through second party agencies and adopt from other countries, instead of adopting from their own.

I am not saying that we should spend billions taking care of these kids reared by kids that are too stupid to snap their legs shut (I was a kid once too), I am saying we should give them options. Options they have (on both sides of the fence), but are unwilling to take because it is too hard (we all know hard in the U.S. is a no no now, or so it seems), or to embarrassing (as has been demonstrated in this thread). And lastly, those that are unwilling to take the slightly more difficult route, will be punished.

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No offense, and this is not meant as an attack. But no one that is alive knows what it is like to be killed.

The simple thing here is this. Ok, because of the below.

If I am walking down the street, attempting to get on with my life, and you were in my way, would it be ok for me to shoot you in the head? You would not feel it, we have already proved as well we can that a round through the head and the projectile impacts the medulla oblongata, that the time it takes the bullet to pass through the skull and the gray matter is less time than it takes for the pain receptors to process the "feeling". So knowing that you would not know what hit you, would that make it right, or acceptable so I can get on with my life?

If not, how can you say it would be ok for Suzy to kill unborn kid two thousand and twelve? He would not know it (if they killed him before the pain receptors formed).
Hmmmm interesting - and you're right I hadn't thought of it that way.

But in a sense you have kind of supported my argument - i.e. it's pointless to speculate on whether or not a foetus would `like' being aborted - because as you say, it wouldn't know - nobody would.

BUT I do think that that `not knowing' is even more profound for a foetus, because it has no point of reference or understanding of life and death - they way we do after we are born and get older. It doesn't even know it's alive, whereas we do. So whilst there are situations where we can be `killed instantly' it seems more tragic that way because there is more to be lost - a whole life lost, rather than a few weeks of `existence'.

This is not how I feel personally - I am merely putting it forward as an argument that people might use.

However, the potential in an unborn foetus cannot be measured against the experience that living people already have. The two are separate and equally important entities. For example, let's consider my foetus. We (Max and I) know already that she is going to be an accomplished dancer, win the female Tour De France, and find a cure for cancer. So to abort her would be a great loss to the world!

No, but seriously - I see what you're saying, and I think we actually both agree on that particular point - the conscious `knowing' of being killed / aborted. Whether that conscious knowing has any bearing on the moral rightness or wrongness of killing / aborting is a whole different argument!
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I'm currently working in a country where abortion is illegal and it doesn't stop people from getting abortions, they either pay "friendly" doctors large sums of money to do it on the sneak, take the DIY approach, give birth then dump the baby, or often just give birth and subject the child to the kind of life you would expect them to receive from parents incapable and unwilling to raise them.
I'm not a big fan of abortion, not for any religious reasons but I think it is something that plays into the what I call the "disposable lifestyle" people have these days. If you don't like it, get rid of it, same with relationships, and I don't think it's proving a healthy attitude in terms of society.
But making abortion illegal is not the answer. Creating a society were it is not frowned upon to give birth and put the child up for adoption would be a good start (plenty of people looking to adopt), making the point to people who aren't very religious that abortion might not be the best thing for them or for society rather than trying to force religious doctrine on people who do not share the same religious beliefs, and of course the usual sex education etc.

It's one of these subjects where understandably people have strong beliefs and get very emotional, unfortunately often resulting in the erosion of logic. As is usually the case with this kind of subject, both sides have valid points and it just requires a deep breath and a bit of give an take to reach a solution of peace and relative satisfaction for all sides.

In my humble opinion

Additionally, I have a 2 year old son and myself and my wife had him after we had been together for 11 months, yes we were that stupid, it was an accident, we really didn't want a child and we were scared. But we both decided we had to try anyway, and now I can promise you I'm very glad we did, he's perfect in every way (I know everyone says that about their children lol).
What part of that don't you agree with C-D-P? You seem like a smart guy but i think like the others it's more about the fight than the cause.
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Hmmmm interesting - and you're right I hadn't thought of it that way.

But in a sense you have kind of supported my argument - i.e. it's pointless to speculate on whether or not a foetus would `like' being aborted - because as you say, it wouldn't know - nobody would.

BUT I do think that that `not knowing' is even more profound for a foetus, because it has no point of reference or understanding of life and death - they way we do after we are born and get older. It doesn't even know it's alive, whereas we do. So whilst there are situations where we can be `killed instantly' it seems more tragic that way because there is more to be lost - a whole life lost, rather than a few weeks of `existence'.
Well that is the thing for me. Not knowing is not knowing. Does not knowing make it right?

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This is not how I feel personally - I am merely putting it forward as an argument that people might use.
I understand. But you seem to be up in the air on a lot of issues, which is good because it shows you have an open mind, and I commend you for that.

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However, the potential in an unborn foetus cannot be measured against the experience that living people already have. The two are separate and equally important entities. For example, let's consider my foetus. We (Max and I) know already that she is going to be an accomplished dancer, win the female Tour De France, and find a cure for cancer. So to abort her would be a great loss to the world!
As we are talking about how other people would see things, lets take this from not a religious perspective about right and wrong, but from a contribution factor (because right and wrong is kind of a religious thing). I would argue this from the other side.

A five year old girl would have experienced more than a fetus, a 16 year old boy would have experienced more than that five year old girl, a twenty year old man in the military would have experienced more than all of the above, a seventy year old man would have experienced more than, once again the above. But all of the above are already closer to death than the fetus, so who has more to give to this community? Now still talking without right or wrong, and simply from who can contribute, is it now wrong to kill the old guy simply because he now may contribute less to the community? Because, lets say we extract God and religion from the equasion, that is what this is really about, the community (not that I would try to remove God from anything).

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No, but seriously - I see what you're saying, and I think we actually both agree on that particular point - the conscious `knowing' of being killed / aborted. Whether that conscious knowing has any bearing on the moral rightness or wrongness of killing / aborting is a whole different argument!
I can agree with you on this. But from a moral stand point, killing is still killing to me.

For me, if I feel as if that person wants to kill me with malicious intent, or kill mine with the same intent, then ok I can try to kill them back. But that person is not trying to kill me and has no malicious intent, and I kill them, then it is plane old murder.
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Like a lot of threads on here. It's about winning the argument not being right. That attitude is what will destroy us as humans.
I see what you are saying and it is important (most definitely) for people to listen first and comprehend second and respond third (if necessary), compromise on such passionate, political (as well as moral and philsophical) issues amongst so many diverse (culturally, ethically, religiously, etc) people, is humanly impossible. Let me clarify, when I say compromise, I mostly mean "agreeing to disagree". That's very hard to do when you feel you are passionately correct. Although, you also can't let that get in the way of admitting wrong-doing.

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It kill's me the people who want to bring All these new Babies into the world won't spend the money to take care of them. Why don't all you Republican Christians start adopting kids with Down Syndrom, or Crack Babies or all the other poor kids with problems??

You just want to cut Taxes!!!! Well taxes are what pay for the hospitals that take care of these poor kids. You support cutting School Lunch Programs for kids. But you All want to bring them into the world. After Birth the Real work just begins, But you act like your work is over as long as they are born...

What about the everyday things like a hug, or a story, or a trip to the zoo, or a Birthday party, or a catch with a ball, WHO... will do that for all the kids you want to bring into the world that no one want's???? (It Sure as hell won't be Christian Conservatives.) They Cut All Funding any Chance they get.

I'll tell you what will happen if Abortion was (NOT) Legal... We would have State Run Crap holes full of Kids that are underfunded, because the same Republicans that brought them into the world don't want to pay more tax to take care of them........

If you think Abortion is wrong then YOU should adopt at least one Child. If you don't then your just Passing the buck!!!!!!!!
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, making the point to people who aren't very religious that abortion might not be the best thing for them or for society rather than trying to force religious doctrine on people who do not share the same religious beliefs
We don't need religious law to legally define human life. In fact those "pro-lifers" that base their opinion on abortion due to religious reasons do more damage IMO. Such religious doctrine has no legal basis in countries that permit freedom of religion.
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, and of course the usual sex education etc.
Sex education is important of course, but in a society has made sex into a form of entertainment sex ed can be somewhat of an enabler to promiscuity and basically removes the real meaning of what sexual intercourse really is and the human life that it does often produce.
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It's one of these subjects where understandably people have strong beliefs and get very emotional, unfortunately often resulting in the erosion of logic.
Can you explain to me the logic behind those that have sex yet refuse to be responsible for that action? The anti-abortion side realizes such consequence and the responsibilty it requires.

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As is usually the case with this kind of subject, both sides have valid points and it just requires a deep breath and a bit of give an take to reach a solution of peace and relative satisfaction for all sides.
People like myself that cannot justify killing the unborn for convenience will likely never meet in the middle. What views would I have to sacrifice to do so?
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