Before we go even as far as abortion, let's look at why women get pregnant. For millennia, women got pregnant for 2 reasons: 1. expectation upon marriage, and 2. to trap the guy that doesn't want her. In the 21st century, #1 phased out, and #2 got legislated. This legislation says, that women don't need you, she only needs your signature or a lab's signature. That way, she is entitled to your money, and she will never need to work for it.
This post will probably not generate a discussion because the feminist mind control about child welfare is strong enough to hide the above truth. But the facts are valid, and the question has merit. Why is everybody contributing to removing the men from the centuries-old get-pregnant-make-money scheme of women?
(Disclaimer: I don't have a child/wife to pay child support / alimony after, only the other 50 % of Americans do, also I don't want to become one of them.)