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If you were that horribly disfigured would you regret being born? To put it another way, if tomorrow you were in a horrible accident and your face ended up like that would you kill yourself or keep living? I don’t think having someone not exist is in their best interest even at that point - although if they decide it for themselves its a different issue. There is such a point, comatose and in constant pain would be at or past it, but it isn’t simply being ugly. For best perspective consider what you would put in your living will as it makes the person being considered a primary concern rather than a problem to be solved and moved past (which gives a bias to killing and beign done with).
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Obviously, we are all going to have varying opinions, and I would like to hear, from those who would continue with a pregnancy, knowing their child would look like Julianna. Yes, she has a fully functioning brain, so she does have the mental capacity to understand one day that she looks different. She's smart enough to know this, but I question what her future will be like. Why are parents concerned more with the here and now than the childs future? Do they make a decision based on what they want? Do they consider the childs future? Why would someone give birth to a child they knew would not look 'normal' yet put that same child through literally hundreds of surgeries to make her appear more normal, and more acceptable? I simply don't see the point of putting such a young child through all the pain and trauma of facial and cranial reconstruction. It's not going to be easy for her. I feel more for Julianna than I do for her parents - after all, Julianna is the one undergoing surgery, she is the one who has begun to endure taunts on the school playground, and they will only get worse - have her parents considered what action they will take when it gets out of control? To answer your question, if I were in an accident, and disfigured, I may well decide I am better off dead - depending on the disfigurement, of course. If my life would be filled with pain and misery, where society judges me for the way I look, obviously it's going to be very hard for someone to look past that, and appriciate themselves. Maybe you could do it, but I couldn't. It's a very sad fact. but society does judge us on our looks.
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It's interesting to discover that even some pro lifers (not on this forum, yet) would abort a child like Julianna, yet others wouldn't. The reasons why are what I'm interested in hearing.
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I greatly appreciate your ad hominem attack. It brings a smile to my face to see such an ancient tradition still in practice. You are, in fact, correct. I know nothing of the situation; rather, I hit keys randomly and by some act of God (and spellcheck) readable sentences emerge. Since they've beaten the odds to get here perhaps you could address them?
In response to Makedde: I'm not heated, that's how I often comment - a listing of thoughts that I used to arrive at my conclusion. In clarification, I too believe the child should be the focus (if not the entirety) of the decision. And there is certainly a point where life can be a curse. However I'm concerned that many would rationalize that a child would be better off not being born before it became true. That girl will endure never ending taunts from her peers. Home schooling seems promising. As long as she looks like that her life will be of a significantly lower quality. But I do not think that her life won't be worth living, or that it isn't at least worth letting her choose for herself. I also think the pain of the surgery is likely preferable to the stigma of that image, so if life with the look is worth it, life with surgery to fix it is even more worth it. In hindsight to my prior argument, there is a major flaw: if I had such a face tomorrow morning I would have the mental fortitude of an adult to endure the stares and ridicule and the pain of the surgery. Big difference. But I doubt that in 20 years she'll look back and wish she'd never been born. To conclude that you would give up is a very acceptable answer, it allows one to stop pondering life in such a state, but is it really true? Assuming that the disfigurement was cosmetic one would only suffer a loss in socialization - one would still be able to interact with family and interact socially through anonymous means (you could still talk to us, that alone is worth living for, right?
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It may be that the 19yrs old daughter of her austrian father/grandfather who as the austrian police spokesman said is in hospital due to an "illness caused by incest"
What if this means she is pregnant by her grandfather/father, which means if this child is born, he would be the childs father,grandfather and great granfather I think,a sort of tripple whammy. Would you abort or not |
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