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That is where society creates a movement toward support groups of rape victims.
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There is support for rape victims, but there are some women out there who refuse support, simply because they feel ashamed at what happened to them. How can we help them? Certainly by not making them have their rapists baby.
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If you have ever talked to a woman who has had an abortion, you would know that it makes her even more ashamed.
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Women only regret their abortions because they don't think the decision through, or they are pressured into them. I don't think you'd find many women who would say they felt ashamed for aborting - if they did, they obviously didn't think the decision through.
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It's possible to feel ashamed for aborting whilst having thought the decision through.
I thought the decision to have my abortion through very thoroughly. Despite all the medical risks posed to myself if I continued with the pregnancy, knowing that my life could be at risk if I continued with the pregnancy, and making the decision to save my own life on the chance that I could lose it if I continued with the pregnancy, didn't stop me from feeling miserably unhappy about it, and ashamed that I wasn't prepared to take the risk and see it through. After all, there was a chance - albeit a small one - that both myself and my baby would have survived without incident. I was actually pretty determined to take that chance. I was met with opposition from ALL sides. I was essentially talked into having an abortion. That is how you can be ashamed about a decision no matter how thoroughly you think it through. There are women out there who can have abortions without emotion about it. Plenty of them. But there are also plenty who can't.
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Chesby, may I venture to guess something in your answer? I have a feeling that at the time, she felt like she was genuinely thinking it through and that she had made an informed, adult decision, maybe getting some advice along the way, BUT in retrospect, she sees that it was a horrible decision and that she would never have done it if she wasn't influenced by the people around her to have the abortion instead of delivering the baby and putting it up for adoption. Chesby, how accurate is this as a partial description?
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Reasonably accurate - although I would never have put it up for adoption. I wanted to have it and I wanted to keep it. I was only 22 though, and essentially wasn't supported at all in that decision. I know my parents would be terribly upset to know that that's how I feel, but sadly it is how I feel. We don't talk about it though, and this is one of those situations that, well, there's nothing I can do about it now, so I have to move on. And in hindsight if I'm completely practical about it, it was the right decision. But I still have internal conflict about it so I try not to go there. It was a long time ago.
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