MacGyverisms

An effective animal, males are designed as procreation machines. There is no point in looking for something different

That's ridiculous! There are good men out there just like there are good women out there. The problem is, especially in these times, is that both of those groups are so (*)(*)(*)(*) small that they can hardly find each other. We may be designed to procreate or whatever you want to say, but men aren't mindless animals. There are plenty of men that don't have the desire to (*)(*)(*)(*) the girl they take out on a date; it's called self-restraint. And if you're a man, Reiver, then you're giving all of us a bad name. If you're not then you need to open your eyes; there are almost as many bad women as there are bad men.

There are plenty of great guys out there, Makedde, despite what Reiver claims. Just keep looking, maybe you shouldn't look online? It is more difficult without online dating sites though so maybe just look everywhere. Up to you. Wish you the best of luck! You'll find him eventually

Men are heterogeneous, but to deny their core nature will encourage a miserable conclusion. Those that deny our animal nature are exaggerating free will and the inherent limitations within our make-up

Not too long ago, there was a Cosmo survey of guys. One of the questions asked was after how many dates the guy expected to have sex. Three was the most common answer and fully the majority "expect" to have sex by the third date. You know, it used to be the case that the guy couldn't "expect" to have sex UNTIL MARRIED! Society didn't used to be so concessionary to the so-called male animal in this respect. It kinda reminds me of what this one girl wrote in about an experience she had in college. After her first date with a certain guy, they went over to his place and he requested sex. She turned him down, to which he reportedly responded: "This is college! I expect at least a hand job!" Hook-up culture unfortunately feeds male entitlement mentality in addition to mostly being an expression of it.

I enjoy casual hook-ups as much as the next person, but I don't fantasize that they're realistically going to lead to any sort of intimate relationship. In my observation, the "good guys" out there are the nerds whom you'll have to support, not the "hot guys" whom you won't. In other words, the fewer options the guy has, the less demanding he tends to be...and vice versa. I know a couple guys who are really decent in the way you're looking for. Unfortunately, neither lives in my country.