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    Quote Originally Posted by Blackrook View Post
    The purpose of marriage is protection of women and children, by giving the man certain legal responsibilities to his family that he otherwise would not have.

    A same-sex marriage has no utility to the state or to society at large. When the state recognizes a marriage, it allocates resources to that recognition, including use of the family courts if the marriage is dissolved. It is a waste of resources to recognize a same-sex marriage that will never produce anything useful to the state or society at large.

    That is the non-religious argument against same-sex marriage. Please keep in mind that no society ever has recognized same-sex marriage. This has nothing to do with religion, it has to do with what marriage is and what it is for.
    Wow.

    Maybe people who think like this should get some education in the law.

    "Use of the family courts"? So what about marriages with NO children?
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    Quote Originally Posted by paco View Post
    I have already provided that reason numerous times, and once before already in this thread alone: legal precedent.

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    Marriage has been defined as a legal union between a man and a woman in this country since the colonial days, and only until recent years have gays been pushing to have the privilege to marry. Some states have allowed it, most have not. DOMA is still a federal law, states are still protected to enact their own rights via the 10th Amendment, and the Full Faith and Credit Clause in the U.S. Constitution has never been used to force a state to recognize a marriage that it does not wish to recognize. Is legal precedent a valid enough reason for you? Because most of the rule of law in this country is based on that tenet alone.
    The laws are far from perfect and do need to be changed from time to time so I don't think that is really a valid argument.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ronald0 View Post
    Your deflection actually proves my point. Who's to say homosexuality is not a mental aberration / disease (or whatever you wanna call it) like being a pervert or getting a raise from watching animals or dead bodies. I'm trying to understand your point of view but you keep deflecting rather than reasoning out your point of view.

    Who's to say being left handed isn't an aberration? Look, I'm grateful you're willing to talk this through. But I don't see any value in exploring the sexual aspect of it. Yes there's some parallel between the attraction one guy has for watching cheerleader skirts, another has for wearing them, another has for naked guys, another has for naked girls, another has for naked corpses. But whatever that commonality is... it's irrelevant.

    We don't deny the couple who likes to dress up in animal costumes and have sex the right to marry. And the reason we deny the guy who has a thing for corpses the right to marry a dead body isn't because of his sexual proclivity, it's because he's trying to marry something that can't even talk much share a life with him.

    There is no similar reason to deny a couple the right to join their lives and live as one simply because you don't know why they're left handed. Or gay.
    Henry George's theories were based on land ownership and how far a business was from a public resource like a mill or waterway. The man lived and died a decade before the model T was produced much less modern transportation and communication. Not only did Henry George never hear of the Internet, he barely lived long enough to see the electric light. Applying the theories of Henry George to modern nations is about as risky as letting the most brilliant caveman design your next airport.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mac-7 View Post
    They would treat homosexual behavior just like they treat prostitution or panhandling.
    Luckily for all of us, Iran's pretty far away from the U.S.

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    Quote Originally Posted by paco View Post
    I have already provided that reason numerous times, and once before already in this thread alone: legal precedent.

    The reason we should not let same sex couples marry is because we didn't let them do it in colonial times? ... k. You're really going to make me respond to that one? I gotta drag out the fact that we didn't let women vote either or mixed race couples marry. We're really gotta do that song and dance again? C'mon... give me a better reason; that one's no fun to shoot down.
    Henry George's theories were based on land ownership and how far a business was from a public resource like a mill or waterway. The man lived and died a decade before the model T was produced much less modern transportation and communication. Not only did Henry George never hear of the Internet, he barely lived long enough to see the electric light. Applying the theories of Henry George to modern nations is about as risky as letting the most brilliant caveman design your next airport.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ronald0 View Post
    The laws are far from perfect and do need to be changed from time to time so I don't think that is really a valid argument.
    I hope you realize that without legal precedent, the rule of law in this country are virtually meaningless. Heck, even the very founding of our nation, our form of government and its laws are based on the Roman Republic. The U.S. Constitution was based on the Iroquois Nation's constitution which consisted of beadwork. My point being that the rule of law in this country has always been preceded by what has come before; even new laws must adhere to older laws. Just look at the 18th Amendment, for example; it took the 21st Amendment to repeal it. Meaning that the 21st Amendment would not even exist had it not been preceded by the 18th Amendment. Hence, legal precedent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blackrook View Post
    A same-sex marriage has no utility to the state or to society at large. When the state recognizes a marriage, it allocates resources to that recognition, including use of the family courts if the marriage is dissolved. It is a waste of resources to recognize a same-sex marriage that will never produce anything useful to the state or society at large.

    Issuing a fishing license or motorcycle license has no utility either. We don't regulate those activities (along with the associated paperwork) because of how useful motorcyclists are to society. We do it because people choose to live that way and we accommodate their wishes as best we can.

    That's all marriage is. At least to the state. It's an accommodation to our citizens who don't want to live as individuals, but want to join with a partner and live one life, in sickness and health, for richer and poorer, till death do they part. Once we certify that union we treat the (in many cases) as one unit... because that's what they want.

    Sure a married couple (gay or otherwise) is more financially secure, happier and more productive. They less likely to need to tap into state resources in the "for poorer" or "in sickness" modes... but that's not why we let folks marry. We do it because, like motorcyclists, they choose that lifestyle and the state -- which serves the people -- does it's best to accommodate them.
    Henry George's theories were based on land ownership and how far a business was from a public resource like a mill or waterway. The man lived and died a decade before the model T was produced much less modern transportation and communication. Not only did Henry George never hear of the Internet, he barely lived long enough to see the electric light. Applying the theories of Henry George to modern nations is about as risky as letting the most brilliant caveman design your next airport.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taxpayer View Post
    Who's to say being left handed isn't an aberration? Look, I'm grateful you're willing to talk this through. But I don't see any value in exploring the sexual aspect of it. Yes there's some parallel between the attraction one guy has for watching cheerleader skirts, another has for wearing them, another has for naked guys, another has for naked girls, another has for naked corpses. But whatever that commonality is... it's irrelevant.

    We don't deny the couple who likes to dress up in animal costumes and have sex the right to marry. And the reason we deny the guy who has a thing for corpses the right to marry a dead body isn't because of his sexual proclivity, it's because he's trying to marry something that can't even talk much share a life with him.

    There is no similar reason to deny a couple the right to join their lives and live as one simply because you don't know why they're left handed. Or gay.
    Well being left handed has been proven scientifically quite conclusively so its really a dumb argument. Its like saying being a more intelligent person is an aberration.

    The thing is, if some person is aroused by children or dead bodies or animals or whatever else, we do not encourage him. One of the reasons is of course that it strikes us as violation of rights and quite repulsive actually, but its also fundamentally wrong. If someone told you they like having sex with a chair, you wouldn't go out and encourage him or ask that the state condone / promote such activities because you can't really digest such a thing as being normal. My question is, is this aberration similar to how a homosexual feels? If yes, I do not deny them their right to practice it or to anything else, but should we as a society and the state be encouraging it or should be be raising awareness of it so that people who experience homosexuality can seek alternate treatments if they so wish.

    Equal rights is a great thing but we do also have laws against prostitution and polygamy. Does that also not contain consenting adults? If yes, then why are we against it?

    I think the problem is both sides are mostly unwilling to discuss the issue and just want the other to accept their viewpoint simple because its the right one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by paco View Post
    I hope you realize that without legal precedent, the rule of law in this country are virtually meaningless. Heck, even the very founding of our nation, our form of government and its laws are based on the Roman Republic.

    No problem then! Those guys wore togas and emulated Greek style in everything, they were as gay as they come. Precedent problem solved!
    Henry George's theories were based on land ownership and how far a business was from a public resource like a mill or waterway. The man lived and died a decade before the model T was produced much less modern transportation and communication. Not only did Henry George never hear of the Internet, he barely lived long enough to see the electric light. Applying the theories of Henry George to modern nations is about as risky as letting the most brilliant caveman design your next airport.

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    Quote Originally Posted by paco View Post
    I hope you realize that without legal precedent, the rule of law in this country are virtually meaningless. Heck, even the very founding of our nation, our form of government and its laws are based on the Roman Republic. The U.S. Constitution was based on the Iroquois Nation's constitution which consisted of beadwork. My point being that the rule of law in this country has always been preceded by what has come before; even new laws must adhere to older laws. Just look at the 18th Amendment, for example; it took the 21st Amendment to repeal it. Meaning that the 21st Amendment would not even exist had it not been preceded by the 18th Amendment. Hence, legal precedent.

    Legal precedent is definitely important but sometimes laws do have to be changed to fit in with changing circumstances and new information. A thing could be wrong by principle but just because that's how its been done for hundreds of years (the laws merely reflecting that) is not an argument.

    Laws have changed in the past rendering precedents meaningless. So they do determine how society should act but simply because the law says so does NOt necessaily mean that it must be right.

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