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not that we are not teaching effectively. The real reason is a much bigger and terrifying.
The reason other countries graduate more students is because that is their way of improving their lives. We as a society have such a better quality of life, that we take for granted the things we have. Kids are not learning because THEY DO NOT WANT TO. Ask a few kids if they think going to school will give them better opportunities and a better quality of life, many of them will tell you school is useless. We glorify not attending school in some parts of our culture. The reason poorer students do not get as good of an education as wealthier students is motivation/incentive to go to school. Millions of American kids believe that school will not make a difference in their lives. It is irrelevant to them. If they were not forced to go by law, they would drop out at much younger ages, which is actually happening more and more. Many kids believe that they do not need school to make a better life for themselves, or they do not believe their life will ever get better. That is saddest reason of all. Great multitudes of kids have no hope for a better life because of everything they see around them. Many do not believe they will live long enough to worry about the future. The biggest and most destructive reason is that we as a nation are not being parents to our kids. I did not say good parents, because many of us are not evening being parents in the first place. Kids grow up without Fathers, Mothers, Role models, or grow up in environments that are destructive, deadly and depressing. They grow up with no hope of being anything more than they are. I will not even get into drugs, marketing targeting children, teen pregnancy, or the fact many children just do not care about school. We as a society allow them to make choices they are not mature enough to make because we are so PC. Parents can go to jail for disciplining their children or invading their privacy. Not only are many of us not parenting our children, but society is slowly taking away our rights to parent our children. We turn out kids into the world unprepared to survive in a world they know nothing about. We rob them of their childhoods to make them adults long before they are ready to be. We allow them to use technology as a babysitter. We are not there for them for many hours of each day. So, the next time someone says " it is abuse to spank your child", or "you can not make your child do that" or ........... think about it for a minute, before turning around and with your next breath saying "our education system in America is terrible". The real abuse is that we are not preparing our children for their future. We, not the schools. If left up to you when you were 12 years old, what would you choose: A) go to school or B) go fishing, swimming, bike riding, snowboarding, skateboarding ........ These children are being left with those decisions, instead of us as parents making those decisions for them until they are at an age where they can make responsible decisions for themselves. And we are legislating ourselves right out of their lives entirely.
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what I was inferring is that parenting has a direct correlation to the success of our school system (or lack thereof). And parents can be blaimed for much of its failures. If kids don't believe they have a chance at success by going to school then whose fault is that? They are wrong, it has direct correlation to success.
There are cultural issues as well which say you must make a ton of money now and many aren't willing to work their way up the chain. There is a sense of entitlement. But too often most time is spent by teachers defending their actions when they discipline a child instead of the parent working with the teacher in improving their behavior. The school district should have more leeway (or use the leeway they have) to enforce conduct code in schools and if it pisses off the parents then tough luck.
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But I know what the problem is NOT. The problem is not that we do not spend enough money on education. China and India do not spend a whole lot of money on education, yet they have become better at educating their citizens because people want to learn. Today, Americans just don't feel like learning. And this is really not a new concept either. Traditionally, the US has not exactly been a powerhouse when it came to education. In fact, for a long time most citizens either farmed for a living or went into manufacturing, which didn't require a formal education at all. So if anything, things have kind of stayed the same when some would argue that we need to change to keep up with new priorities in the world.
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