Farewell my beautiful Gracie Baby, beloved pet:
15th Jan 1997- 18 Jul 2009
"The Futures Not Set; There Is No Fate But What We Make For Ourselves" - John Connor: Terminator 2.
go to Bunnings, buy some timber and build a bridge.
Die dulci fruere
That statement is an insult to you personally.
It is perfectly acceptable to point out the falsehood of someones statements. It is not acceptable to then suggest they are a liar. The noticeable difference being, one example focuses on the statement and the other example focus on the poster.
Notice how your posts contribute nothing to the discussion except poor logic and misinformed statements or untruths. Something along those lines could have been easily said and more acceptable in respectful debate.
Last edited by falena; Jan 22 2012 at 04:22 AM. Reason: Page loaded before I finished. lol
In my neck of the woods- it would be acceptable in honest learning to say, "I believe or think -you are mistaken, deceived, or may have lied and contradicted yourself".
The more experience you gain in this world, the more substance you have to process information you are given. Perspective changes depending where we are at the time.
In the United States we have been engaged in decade long active war. It does things to people. In the United States (yes, including and perhaps especially the South) we know exactly what this means. The United States has been involved in many wars since her birth some are declared and some are not. Where ever we are in this world we have been born into a time of Necessary Transition.
To any woman in this world who has ever given birth Transition is a very difficult and painful experience late in the birthing process and just before a new life is welcomed once again on our planet. One could become disoriented, afraid, discouraged, exhausted, or overwhelmed by a litany of factors. Woman or child could die or require intervention of an attendant.
We must be frank. Birth and life is a miraculous and spiritually beautiful process; but it is also a bloody, arduous, dangerous and demanding event. Both are truths. Misunderstandings, conflicting values, and basic fear can cause catastrophe.
If we dare to discuss the world we live in at all, take time to educate each other it is the only way we grow or learn anything.
Try thinking about it this way: If you were an inexperienced mother giving birth and began to panic because you were disoriented about the time of transition and did not know what was happening , would you not want someone to tell you: "STOP! get some self-control or you will die and so will your child!" then explain the details later?
This thought just as much for me as anyone reading. In expressing it for whoever reads the post, I grasped it finally. It was worth the time.
One other thing that's probably worth mentioning is that the rule on personal attacks has recently been updated, and now specifically includes in its wording the red bolded section below:
That is intended to make it clear that it doesn't matter whether a member believes their insult or attack against another member to be 'true', 'fact', 'proven', or whatever - it is still against the rules. This has always been the case, but in the past some members seem to have misunderstood this, and believed that they can insult others as long as they believe their insult to be 'true'. That has never been the case, and the new version of the rule makes that clear, to avoid any such misunderstanding in future.(4) Personal Attacks:
ATTACK THE MESSAGE, NOT THE MESSENGER - Any statement directed at or about another member of Political Forum that is derogatory in nature will be considered a 'Personal Attack'.
Derogatory comments, insults, name-calling, etc. that are, or appear in the judgement of moderators intended to be, directed personally at other forum members are not permitted. This forum is a place for 'respectful debate' - other forum members should not be regarded as the subject of the discussions. Members must not attack or harass (by repeated personal attack, accusation, baiting, trolling, posting/demanding personal information, etc.) other members in discussion threads, or in any other forum areas (Social Groups, Visitor Messages, Private Messages, Reputation Comments, etc.), even if they believe their attack/insult to be 'true' or 'fact'. Attacks directed towards politicians, public figures, political groups, etc. are allowed, but anything deemed by the moderators to be threats towards public figures, forum members or anyone else will be removed, and may be reported to the relevant authorities if considered to be real and/or serious.
It is against the forum rules to call another member a 'liar', even if you believe that the accusation is 'true'.
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