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Old 07-24-2006, 12:47 PM
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Although I certainly think there is a biological basis (allowing for environmental influences, as well), the bigger issue for me is this: WHO CARES? I can't think of a single reason why it's any of my concern who someone I don't even know has sex with (as long as it's consensual). So why should I even concern myself about it?
Yeah, same here.
What I find interesting is that the people who are really so fearful of gays are the ones who want to LIMIT their kids' options. That's what it comes down to. They think that tolerance of gays will somehow make their kids choose to be gay.
What it really comes down to is the same argument they have for all of their morality enforcements. They think that, despite having a moral philosophy that they believe is superior, by not enforcing every strict part of the legal code people will largely choose other codes. As if any straight person would decide to become gay simply because it's tolerated (I can tell you I've never been tempted despite everyone I care about not giving a %$&*).
It always amazes me that the same people have an ideological devotion to the free market most of the time... So in business it's okay to let people do whatever they want... but not in personal life?!
I don't know. Social conservatives strike me as the least thoughtful and most paranoid of all ideologues in general. I suppose that's what happens when every decision you make is based on a hope/fear that the world is ending at every given snapshot in history.
Is that you make the mistake of thinking you understand what conservatives believe. Based on some arrogant idea that they are stupid, mindless humans who do not think for themselves, are told what to think and are paranoid/led around by fear, you think they are such simple creatures. Until you look at things objectively with an open mind(now where have I heard that before), you only sound foolish in your analysis of the conservative psyche.

I will grant that there are some extremist thought(on both sides of the spectrum), but the when you talk about conservatives, you are talking about the average Joe public, not the far right extremists. Just as I don't believe that all liberals hold kinship with the far left extremest forms of thought. Conservatives are not Nazi's & liberals are not Anarchists.

The mistake you make again, is that you state opinion as fact and therefore form an opinion on that basis, which 99% of the time has no basis in fact. For instance, you might state that people are intellectually inferior to you because they voted to elect and/or re-elect Bush, and you believe that it would impossible to vote for him because you think he is a criminal/stupid/war crime/liar................. I can tell you that if I believed that, not only would I not have voted to re-elect him, but I would have lead the charge to impeach him, prosecute him and put him away for a very long time. I don't believe he is those things, not because I am told to think that, but because by my own investigation into it, there is no evidence to support anything other than he is trying to protect his country. To me that is the first priority of the president of the US.

We can sit here and argue(like we continue to do) about Iraq/Bush/War on terror/blah, blah, blah. But the reality is that most of the basis for bashing Bush, is not factual, it is opinion/conjecture/speculation. Yet the justification for the relentless attacks on him is that he has done these horrendous/unthinkable/illegal/lying/cheating/mysterious things that no one can show any tangible proof of. While to me it is takes common sense and no stretch of the imagination to believe otherwise.

The debate will go on forever and never get anywhere, but to give yourself some sign of credibility, think a little objectively before you degrade people and their opinions. And before the thought police pipe in about how I am telling people they can't have an opinion, or that they can't a have contradictory opinion about anything that I state, stop. I am not saying that. All I am saying is that I put very little weight into peoples opinions, when they are not backed up by any tangible evidence(let alone proof) that what you are saying has any basis in fact. And don't underestimate peoples intelligence. It might get you killed someday.
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Old 07-25-2006, 06:51 PM
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on a topic where "judging" is the entire issue.

The first sentence of my post states that my only input is purely scientific. I am not judging peoples sexual choices, I am merely stating facts. This particular post asks the question is it a choice or not. I completely stayed within the context of the topic. Those who criticized my statements were the ones judging and deviating from the topic. It seems to me that they are the close minded and I wonder if they even read what I wrote.

I do not engage in debate about whether homosexuality is wrong or if it is my business. I don't have a problem with someone being gay. My personal opinions about it are meaningless. I have friends who are gay and I do not judge anyone. So please keep your snide comments about what you think I think to yourself. And read what people write before you pop off about it and make yourself look like a fool. You are the ideolog here, not me.

There are other debatable subjects that relate to sexuality that I would love to engage in. But, as I did with this topic, I will keep my comments strictly to the topic of the post. Please do so yourselves and don't make me out to be something that I am not.
Scientific huh?from where,Bob Jones University?lol.Most scientist's have already concluded homosexuality is as biological as heterosexuality!As for religion,God created gay's for population control!Deal with it!
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...was your contribution scientific?

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So it is very easy to understand how homosexuality is entirely by choice. The natural, indisputable laws of science prove this beyond a shadow of a doubt.
Which `laws` are you refering to? What research do you allude to? What science are you basing your conclusions on?

It seems to me that your argument can be surmised as:

1. Women don`t have a thang

2. Therefore homosexuality is a choice

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I notice that many arguments in support of restricting rights from gay people are fundamentally based on the notion that being gay is a choice.

If this is true there may be some logical basis for those arguments. I personally can't see that being gay is a choice and I base that assumption on the following:

Several years ago my wife and I were invited to go to a gay bar by a gay couple we happened to know. I was at first reluctant but eventually agreed to go.

When we got there, the first thing I noticed was how much my thinking had been skewed by bad stereotypes. True there were a few "flamers" who seemed to be the only people truly enjoying themselves but, as for the rest, all I saw were uber musceled uber handsome adoni that looked liked they'd just stepped off of the cover of a fashion magazine (it was a very trendy bar).

My wife went off to dance (for a change!) and I was left with the task of ordering the next round of drinks.

Sitting at the bar was one of the most attractive and glamorous women I had ever seen. She didn't look very happy though. We started to chat and it transpired that the guy she had come with (whom she knew to be gay) was somewhat ignoring her. I got the impression she was trying to do a "conversion job" but wasn't being that successful as the guy was more interested in talking to a bus driver called Dave.

At this point I reasoned that in no way could homosexuality be a matter of choice. I personaly know that I (were I not hitched) or any number of my straight mates would have SAWN OFF OUR RIGHT LEGS if we thought it would better our chances of getting within a mile of this goddess.

Not our gay guy though. Dave was definitely his flavour of the month.

I'd like to hear your views on this specific point. Please try to avoid political issues or religious arguments as they have been examined numerously in other posts.
As a queer man, when I was younger, I TRIED my hardest to be straight, but it simply DOES NOT WORK. I had even resigned myself to commit suicide if I still felt 'gay' by the age of 20. But something miraculous came over me when I turned 20. It was a 'spiritual awakening' of sorts and in that moment, as I gazed down at the street many stories beneath my feet, I realized that God was speaking to me and He was telling me that homosexuality was a BLESSING. And since now I know that is true, I've been able to overcome the damage that society and religion have placed on us. And I've been able to see quite clearly how people are decieved into believing the being gay is 'wrong'. It's from a religiously fanatic dogma that teaches people to behave intolerantly of others who are different from them.

Now I take great pride in my 'queerness' and have dedicated my life to help other young people who felt as hopeless as I did that day. I tell them that THEY are the EDUCATORS in many cases, because it is their job to educate their ignorant religious parents to the Truth. And despite all the lies and BS that religion has brought to man, the Truth is always self-evident.

So until any insane Christian steps into MY shoes, they cannot say how another person's sexuality is 'caused'. And I find it very tedious and irrational to try to discover 'why' a person's sexuality is. The important thing is for us to be HAPPY beings and to share that happiness with others.

I also find it really shameful the way some of the 'Christians' behave towards homosexuals. These are the people that should be helping them CELEBRATE the diversity on this wonderful planet! Not treating others as 2nd class citizens.


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I notice that many arguments in support of restricting rights from gay people are fundamentally based on the notion that being gay is a choice.

If this is true there may be some logical basis for those arguments. I personally can't see that being gay is a choice and I base that assumption on the following:

Several years ago my wife and I were invited to go to a gay bar by a gay couple we happened to know. I was at first reluctant but eventually agreed to go.

When we got there, the first thing I noticed was how much my thinking had been skewed by bad stereotypes. True there were a few "flamers" who seemed to be the only people truly enjoying themselves but, as for the rest, all I saw were uber musceled uber handsome adoni that looked liked they'd just stepped off of the cover of a fashion magazine (it was a very trendy bar).

My wife went off to dance (for a change!) and I was left with the task of ordering the next round of drinks.

Sitting at the bar was one of the most attractive and glamorous women I had ever seen. She didn't look very happy though. We started to chat and it transpired that the guy she had come with (whom she knew to be gay) was somewhat ignoring her. I got the impression she was trying to do a "conversion job" but wasn't being that successful as the guy was more interested in talking to a bus driver called Dave.

At this point I reasoned that in no way could homosexuality be a matter of choice. I personaly know that I (were I not hitched) or any number of my straight mates would have SAWN OFF OUR RIGHT LEGS if we thought it would better our chances of getting within a mile of this goddess.

Not our gay guy though. Dave was definitely his flavour of the month.

I'd like to hear your views on this specific point. Please try to avoid political issues or religious arguments as they have been examined numerously in other posts.
I am a homosexual and have been all my life. Lord knows, when I was younger I TRIED to be straight...it just didn't work.

If sexuality is a choice, then I ask the heterosexuals when they made the decision to be straight?

Why on earth would anyone CHOOSE to be a homosexual when being a heterosexual is so much easier? Heterosexuals don't have to worry about being evicted from their homes because of their sexuality, they don't have to worry about losing their jobs because of their sexuality and they don't have to worry about having rights taken away from them that homosexuals have to worry about...because of their sexuality.

Of course there are deviant homosexuals, just as there are deviant heterosexuals. If anyone cares to do some research they would find that most children molested by male adults are married heterosexuals with families of their own.

I don't understand the fear and disdain that heterosexuals have for homosexuals unless they don't feel secure in their sexuality themselves. Homosexuals don't RECRUIT straights and even if they did...how can anyone force someone else to be gay if they don't have gay tendencies in their own lives? There is also bi-sexuality, which I believe is the reason for so much fear the straights have. They don't understand how they can be in a committed relationship with the opposite sex, and satisfied sexually but still feel an attraction to a member of their own sex.

IMO, males are quite different than females as most males are driven by a mostly animalistic sexual desire. Most males will screw anything that wiggles and will resort to any measures to feel sexual pleasure, no matter who's on the other end. Females are more emotionally sexually charged. Even straight guys know this. Ask any straight guy how many times he can have sex with his partner without some emotional murmmerings and foreplay.

This is also why males who are incarcerated even if they have straight relationships outside will succomb to sexual satisfaction from another man. Is it homosexual? Not necessarily..it is just a sexual satisfaction...driven by sexual instinct.

How do I know this? I'm a retired psychiatrist...and have seen it all. JK
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Short and Sweet. Being homesexual is not a choice. No body wakes up on thier 15th birthday and decides to be a homosexual. The practice of one's sexuality is a choice. You may be gay or straight and choose not to act upon your urges.
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Short and Sweet. Being homesexual is not a choice. No body wakes up on thier 15th birthday and decides to be a homosexual. The practice of one's sexuality is a choice. You may be gay or straight and choose not to act upon your urges.
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Short and Sweet. Being homesexual is not a choice. No body wakes up on thier 15th birthday and decides to be a homosexual. The practice of one's sexuality is a choice. You may be gay or straight and choose not to act upon your urges.
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I notice that many arguments in support of restricting rights from gay people are fundamentally based on the notion that being gay is a choice.

If this is true there may be some logical basis for those arguments. I personally can't see that being gay is a choice and I base that assumption on the following:

Several years ago my wife and I were invited to go to a gay bar by a gay couple we happened to know. I was at first reluctant but eventually agreed to go.

When we got there, the first thing I noticed was how much my thinking had been skewed by bad stereotypes. True there were a few "flamers" who seemed to be the only people truly enjoying themselves but, as for the rest, all I saw were uber musceled uber handsome adoni that looked liked they'd just stepped off of the cover of a fashion magazine (it was a very trendy bar).

My wife went off to dance (for a change!) and I was left with the task of ordering the next round of drinks.

Sitting at the bar was one of the most attractive and glamorous women I had ever seen. She didn't look very happy though. We started to chat and it transpired that the guy she had come with (whom she knew to be gay) was somewhat ignoring her. I got the impression she was trying to do a "conversion job" but wasn't being that successful as the guy was more interested in talking to a bus driver called Dave.

At this point I reasoned that in no way could homosexuality be a matter of choice. I personaly know that I (were I not hitched) or any number of my straight mates would have SAWN OFF OUR RIGHT LEGS if we thought it would better our chances of getting within a mile of this goddess.

Not our gay guy though. Dave was definitely his flavour of the month.

I'd like to hear your views on this specific point. Please try to avoid political issues or religious arguments as they have been examined numerously in other posts.
I am a homosexual and have been all my life. Lord knows, when I was younger I TRIED to be straight...it just didn't work.

If sexuality is a choice, then I ask the heterosexuals when they made the decision to be straight?

Why on earth would anyone CHOOSE to be a homosexual when being a heterosexual is so much easier? Heterosexuals don't have to worry about being evicted from their homes because of their sexuality, they don't have to worry about losing their jobs because of their sexuality and they don't have to worry about having rights taken away from them that homosexuals have to worry about...because of their sexuality.

Of course there are deviant homosexuals, just as there are deviant heterosexuals. If anyone cares to do some research they would find that most children molested by male adults are married heterosexuals with families of their own.

I don't understand the fear and disdain that heterosexuals have for homosexuals unless they don't feel secure in their sexuality themselves. Homosexuals don't RECRUIT straights and even if they did...how can anyone force someone else to be gay if they don't have gay tendencies in their own lives? There is also bi-sexuality, which I believe is the reason for so much fear the straights have. They don't understand how they can be in a committed relationship with the opposite sex, and satisfied sexually but still feel an attraction to a member of their own sex.

IMO, males are quite different than females as most males are driven by a mostly animalistic sexual desire. Most males will screw anything that wiggles and will resort to any measures to feel sexual pleasure, no matter who's on the other end. Females are more emotionally sexually charged. Even straight guys know this. Ask any straight guy how many times he can have sex with his partner without some emotional murmmerings and foreplay.

This is also why males who are incarcerated even if they have straight relationships outside will succomb to sexual satisfaction from another man. Is it homosexual? Not necessarily..it is just a sexual satisfaction...driven by sexual instinct.

How do I know this? I'm a retired psychiatrist...and have seen it all. JK

THanks for your post. It's nice to see at least someone in here with a little bit of intelligence. I could never understand why the Christian right is so filled with rage about homosexuals. And I've never understood why the gay hate industry has been created SINGLE-HANDEDLY by 'Christians'. It would seem more fitting for Christians to be working towards ensuring equal rights for ALL people, not just heterosexual ones.

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Whilst I agree with what you are saying, it should be noted that it's not only the christian right that's making it hard for gay people (and those that are, are making it very hard). The moslem faith (though not all of its follwers) is not exactly welcoming of gay relationships either and I also know of many non-religious people who have a big thing against gays.

It is though, largely, the christian-right (and not all christians are the christian-right) in the US that is most affronted by the notion of gay people receiving equal rights. Most of the rest of the western world finds this as fascinating as alchemy :-/ and I imagine that some truly caring christian followers are beginning to realize that this is just a "wedge" issue, someting that neo-conservative manipulators are using in order to get their votes and not a campaign in which they, themselves, truly believe. Who cares if two adults want to become legal next-of-kin? I know I don't.[/quote]
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