Thread: I can't seem to find any gay recruiters

Originally Posted by Johnny-C

What do you mean by "confused"? And I'm simply tentative about the validity of your testimony. I don't think your experiences are universal.


Please... "sexual orientation" is as standard (or well-defined) a term as you'll encounter. It describes very well what it refers to.


Please, stop making up meanings for words. Some kids are heterosexual and others are homosexual (even bisexual). What you are saying makes no sense.


Ha-Ha!! That is 'some' teens. They do not become "gay", because of peer pressure. Perhaps there are exceptions, but some one (even a teen) being "gay" because of peer pressure isn't common at all.


You need to prove this with more than your opinion. It is an interesting theory, but I have yet to hear most people explain that they are "gay", because the kids in school were into it. I have known more than a few gay guys that pretended to be 'straight' while they were in school (just to avoid the persecution that came with being discovered to have that sexual orientation).


As I said, there are exceptions... but a kid know if they are gay or not. Later in life, those exceptional people may "switch" to the orientation which actually suits them. Even so, I haven't experienced or heard much about the peer pressure which makes kids "gay". Do you have scientific research which supports your position?


A lot of gay people (especially young kids) HIDE their sexual orientation, for the very reason they are handed the baggage to CARRY; stuff from those who are hateful or homophobic. This is well-known. As a kid, I didn't dislike my sexual-orientation... I disliked the reality that other people rejected it. I hid like most kids do (if they can hide it). I was/am a masculine guy... so I covered it almost naturally. What I COULDN'T do very well, was go bonkers for some good looking girl; I had to pretend to be distracted by something else. When guys would talk about females (in that typically interested way), I often nodded quietly, acting cool; but in truth, I had nothing exciting to express about it; females NEVER turned me on. I KNEW that I was a homosexual at age 14.


Sorry, but being "gay" is something that most kids are going to have to grow up with and deal with for the rest of their lives. I spent my time being mostly silent (as described above); but no kid should HAVE to hide that.


Stop it! There is nothing you've shown/proven, which shows that a person's sexual "choices" or "actions" cause them to be gay or straight. If you have such scientific data, then you are far ahead of any research I've ever read on the topic. I can accept that you believe what you are saying, it simply isn't substantiated.


I would agree that many would be better-off as young people, if they hadn't had sex. But of the few things I remember well, having sex was one of them. People weren't feeling guilty about "sex", even in the 1970's. But homosexuality was a definite no-no... though I knew a few gay guys in school. We didn't feel our attractions were wrong, we typically felt fearful that someone would find out and persecute us. It was about "fear" not "guilt".


Sexual attractions DO NOT work that way, you don't give up being straight, to go gay. Please, stop making things up. You may have experienced something in your little niche which supports your own theories, but what you're saying isn't the way things are for many young people.


I tend to agree, but sorry... the MAJORITY of kids are having sex well before they reach 18 years old. I'm for purity and abstinence, but I know what kids do (I talk to them often, and I was one myself).


Well, people had better start considering teaching more kids how to COPE, because more kids today are having sex than they did when I was coming up.

I went to a ALL boys school,and what we were most interested in was study not defining if we were gay or whatever.yes and we all knew who the Homosexual kids were and guess what no-one cared.

To busy studying things like biology were we were taught that there are 3 sexualities Homosexual ,bisexual ,hetrosexual ,its called science something the gay brained just don't seem to understand or are running away from .

no sorry 4 years of Top grade biology and never heard the description 'gay or lesbian " AS FAR AS SEXUALITY MENTIONED ONCE.

We did do the lesbians of Lesbos island in greece when we did geography and social science ,but that defined a group of Greeks.Including all sexual orientations and genders.the Lesbians of Lesbos will be Greeks.

Originally Posted by Johnny-C

I don't think that people of ANY sexual orientation are actively recruiting individuals. I do think that normal people of all sexual-orientations sometimes crave a sexual experience.


Gay people are both common and normal.

Being Gay is a personal choice ,and a absolutely middle class fashion lifestyle it is ,gayness is weirdoness.

Originally Posted by philxx

I went to a ALL boys school,and what we were most interested in was study not defining if we were gay or whatever.yes and we all knew who the Homosexual kids were and guess what no-one cared...

I don't know where you grew up, but it wasn't like that here in America; might be better now.

Originally Posted by Johnny-C

I've seen more places on the internet where people of ALL genders show pics of their genitals than I can count. But anyone going there to see that is fine with me, as long as they are discrete and lawful about it. People like sex and porn, and if we found a way to actually STOP people from liking it... then we'd likely see a REAL threat to the earth's population.

I'm in the military, and I KNOW that heterosexuals are as open, honest and egotistical about their "sexuality" as homosexuals.

Did the person you are quoting actually say that ,Hetrosexual men don't think with their little heads first second and third??????

Unbelievable statement that the sexual drive of testosterone fueled hetrosexal males isn't well,more excessive of any other ,the problem training young men to do anything thoughtful is to get their hands off, and stop thinking with the thing between their legs ,well so i find.

Originally Posted by Johnny-C

I don't think that people of ANY sexual orientation are actively recruiting individuals. I do think that normal people of all sexual-orientations sometimes crave a sexual experience.


Gay people are both common and normal.

Gay is not normal thinking ,as it must attack and be devoid of science to start with ,junking all previously accepted scientific definitions of GENDER and SEXUALITY,without a shread of evidence as to why this is necessary .


I have no problem with the Lifestyle choices of people ,hey live and let live ,i do have a problem with scientifc revisionism\FALSIFICATION and outright ignorance of Biology .