You say that its because you fear Homosexual as a term because 50years ago people who were homosexual where treated as mentally ILL.
50years ago ,Question if a doctor attempted to put a person in a mental health facility TODAY ,2012,because they are homosexual WHAT WOULD HAPPEN?
Or are the LGBTIQ so scared of their own shadows ,that they are irrationally fearfull because they are gay.
BTW ,stop trying to reinvent the wheel ,homsexuality with the name or not has been recognised for as long as Humans have been around ,well before the formation of the LGBT in the 1980's.
STOP being scared little children STAND UP ,be HOMOSEXUAL and Proud ,like the GENERATIONS that fought for equality before any of you were born .
When Oscar Wilde ,said 'a love that dare not speak its name at the end of the 19th century ,he wasn't thinking Gay ,he was thinking HOMOSEXUAL love as the same as ALL others .And there is nothing wrong with that!
btw,Wilde never wanted to get married ,he didn't like religiously minded bigotts and for his courage he paid with his freedom and life!
A Matyr to the struggle for social equality,he was HOMOSEXUAL and proud ,Not gay and stupid!