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Originally Posted by Koga
What's there to understand?
Marriage means you live with someone and have sex with them. Whoopty (*)(*)(*)(*)ing doo. Yes, it's more of a pain in the ass then it sounds, but then again what isn't?
To say a child doesn't understand is grossly underestimating a child's intelligence. They understand well enough. Are they mature to handle it? Probably not...
But I don't see people stopping fourteen year old girls from having sex. Infact I see them whining about the need for education.
Well maybe if we brought back courting we wouldn't have that problem now would we?
Oh, so suddenly children can understand sex just fine but marriage is too farfetched? Give me a break. Liberalism talks so much out the ass I wonder why they even have mouths.
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There's a significant difference between sex and marriage for a child. I don't think a child is responsible enough to handle either, but the education we give children about sex is not meant to imply that the child has a better understanding of sex than they do marriage. The difference is marriage can be controlled for the protection of the child, but sex can not. Unless you have your child under 24 hour surveillance, you can't control the choices a child makes regarding sex. Thus we have little choice but to do what we can to educate the children about sex in the hope they will make the appropriate decisions regarding it.
And yes, you definatly oversimplify marriage. Perhaps to the usual perspective, that's what it boils down to, but legal marriage serves a lot of purposes beyond just sex. You would not need to make it a legal issue if that's all there was to it.