"All ETERNITY" !!! Oh no! Not THAT!!! How dramatic ......ya, if the heat's too hot for ya better leave the kitchen... I never put anyone on ignore.
Sure, but since you are married with children, we can conclude that we both have one thing in common and that is that we both consider marriage/long term commitment and family-making important.
Quite evidentally, you valued marriage and family higher than "non-marriage" and single-life or else you would not be married.
That’s faulty logic, if I choose steak over lobster, does it mean I value steak more? Or is it just a choice
It is a choice that indicates that you, for that moment, value steak higher than you value lobster, yes.
There you again with the jr high” gotcha” mentality. If you want to play with words have a good time. I can’t waste my time with this kind of silliness
I am not at all being silly. Truth is that we base our choices on our subjective values. Rarely do we pick something something we value lower in over something that we value higher. All interactions and transactions are based on this basic truth.
And an extremist draws extreme conclusions,,you believe no one can value two things the same ...and that’s your “basic truth”. Sounds like maybe your parents valued another sibling..after, all couldn’t value you the same