There is a difference between races of how different they generally react towards women. I think this is caused by the culture and the media. A black man or a white from the West will never have an advantage over an Asian man or a Russian man or a Middle Eastern man in picking up traditional females from these areas or cultures because he does not understand the customs and mannerisms. A black man's from the US overly confident and boastful attitudes (these qualities are subjective and I perceive like that) for example might get some tons of girl in America or in Europe but that thing won't work out so well in places like Russia and Asia. Moreover, especially in Muslim countries, instead of getting girl, he is likely to get his head chopped off. In traditional Asian/Russian or Muslim society, a man needs to be respectful, humble, modest, and responsible to get a woman but in the west a man needs to be arrogant, rude, loud-mouthed, obnoxious, cocky, "outgoing", act mean-like to other men, violent, and too "macho"-like to get a woman. However, due to culture erosion which steams from the fact that the Western way of life has been diffusing almost everywhere, men from non-Western cultures have had struggle to change their mentalities into Western-like mannerism. Therefore, it is less likely to see an Asian/Middle Eastern/Russian Man with Western women than a Western man with an Asian/Middle Eastern/Russian woman. This is how it seems to me and I wonder how it seems to you. This thread may be overly stupid but I have to check out my perception through learning your ideas on the matter.
Well speaking from experience ... as a Black Man ... simply being nice, interesting and a good listener to a Woman (Any Woman, Any Flavor) lands the opportunity. Exceeding expectations ... brings her back for more "opportunities". Dam ... if I wasn't already married ... I'd write a book ... naturally 90% Pictures, 10% Table of Contents ... for Men of course.
I do not like to stereotype entire cultures...or genders..this comment is going to be intentionally overly broad. (no pun intended) While in the service, I dated a Japanese woman for many months, and actually have a preference for Asian women...I find Western women too materialistic. Many Western women go into the relationship thinking it's the guy's job to entertain them...make them laugh, take them out, make them feel pretty and desired...without questioning what they bring to the table in a relationship. It's a given, in their minds..that their mere presence is gift enough. Their fathers must have spoiled them or something, I don't know..but the attitudes are something I simply don't want to deal with.
I find this ironic. Do you see how the first poster shows exactly what women are "up against" in trying to weed out males who have a genuine interest, from men who just want ...further opportunities (let's face it, that's 90% of you), while the second poster whinges that women put them through too many hoops. You did it to yourself, men?
I don't recall anytime in my life that I have been attracted to a guy because of his color or race. There are so many other things that are significantly more importent to me.
Don't look at me. I'm still trying to figure out why women seem so likely to talk to me about things that I have no particular reason to want to know...
Allah , I have never seen this approach work and because of my age I have had the privilege of having had many girl friends from a considerable number of different countries and in particular Eastern Europe . Women everywhere love strong , caring men , but that excludes boasting , physical demonstration and arrogance . Manners , politeness and respect are universally appreciated . Women -- particularly with age , love intelligence and love being listened to . People who are bombastic , manipulative and controlling are soon rejected . imho .
When they say opposites attract, that is most certainly the case between a man and a woman in the gender category, but not so with a liberal gay man or a liberal femanazi woman. Having said that, I would say the first attraction between a man and a woman would have to be their overall physical appearance. Lets face it, being a rather dapper youthful appearing man myself, I wouldn't feel the least bit attracted to a 4x4 wide glide 300+ pound cow sporting an inch wide harelip any more than she would be to me. I wouldn't want to be living in a culture where having a beer in public is crime enough to have my head chopped off, and where the first attraction to a woman is shrouded in secrecy behind a veil. I'll take my chances with the women here in good ole America....thank you very much. The overriding factor for me in choosing a soul mate would be to have us both share ideological, spiritual and political oneness. I am just the opposite of those characteristics the OP mentioned of Western man....arrogant, rude, loud-mouthed, obnoxious, cocky and outgoing. The only place I've seen this behavior in Western man is on the telly watching an OWS protest or an anti war protest by a bunch of sniveling panty wearing mamma's boys liberal men.
Man! I was just testing this new irony meter, and now I got a pubble of melted electronics on the floor and shrapnel in the cieling.
