When I hear the word 'gay' I immediately think of...

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When I hear 'gay' I think of:

  1. Child Molesters / Pedophiles / NAMBLA

    12.9%
  2. Sexual Predation

    8.9%
  3. HIV/AIDS

    14.5%
  4. Anal Sex

    14.5%
  5. Promiscuity / Hedonism

    8.9%
  6. Effeminate, lisping, weak men

    19.4%
  7. Shallowness / Selfishness

    8.1%
  8. Depression / Suicides

    4.8%
  9. Something else

    47.6%
  10. Nothing in particular

    30.6%
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  1. tallgirl

    tallgirl New Member

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    Uh, the B's can already marry someone of the opposite sex. Or is there a checkbox on a marriage license which says "Are you bi?" that's used to deny marriage licenses to bisexuals who want to marry someone of the opposite sex?

    For the T's, I've not heard that they can't marry, only that the State isn't sure which sex they are and which sex they are allowed to marry. Get rid of the restrictions on the L's and G's and I'm confident the B's and T's will be able to marry someone of either sex just fine.
     
  2. ryanm34

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    I think Byrne.

    Living legend.
     
  3. Iolo

    Iolo Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    I just get a bit pissed off that a perfectly good word has been abducted by homosexuals, leaving an irritating gap.
     
  4. premiere

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    In the United States, I think the fifth choice, Effeminate, lisping, weak men, is indicative of what we see in our popular culture. On television, and in film, homosexual males are regularly portrayed as being extremely effeminate. Furthermore, on reality television shows, in particular, actual homosexual males, who happen to be effeminate, are standard fare. I think this has an effect on the way many think of what a homosexual male might act like. For example, I know several women who claim to have a "gaydar"- they claim to be able to know, intuitively, when a man is a homosexual. I think this "gaydar" is based on the notion that homosexual men should be effeminate.

    I am a recreational hockey player. I've played on several teams, in local beer leagues, on which I had homosexual teammates. I always found out about the sexual orientation of these individuals in indirect ways, such as other players waiting to shower after a game until certain other individuals were finished. Sometimes, it would be while celebrating at a bar after a game. Personally, I never had a clue to begin with. I think that being homosexual in a hyper-masculine environment like that must be difficult.
     
  5. DivineComedy

    DivineComedy Well-Known Member

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    That is an excellent example of thinking like a bigot.
     
  6. fifthofnovember

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    Wow, what a stupid response. Obviously you just have a knee-jerk reaction to call people bigots. Try reading a post before replying to it. Tallgirl said "Get rid of the restrictions on the L's and G's and I'm confident the B's and T's will be able to marry someone of either sex just fine". There, she just agreed with your whole (*)(*)(*)(*) agenda! And made perfectly logical sense to boot. And you still called her a bigot! You actually have so little to offer that someone who says "Legalize gay marriage, and bi's and transsexuals will automatically receive those benefits as well" is greeted with "You bigot!"
     
  7. philxx

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    Oh thank you ,a scientist who uses Scientific definitions not street trash talk ,"Gay"=Happy.

    Homosexual is a scientific definition equal to Hetrosexual and bisexual ,if science the thinking above crude backward prejudice ,needs to be redefined .

    no a "gay " could be described thus,Middle 30's Middle class ,middle intelligence ,who sees nothing but themselves and their "lifestyle choices'hardly any form of "oppression" except the ,right to have equal marriage RITES,in the church of their Choice!

    Whereas ,Homosexual is a scientific term describing Normal human sexuality!
     
  8. Sadanie

    Sadanie Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    I agree with you. This is why I voted "something else," because when I hear or see gay people, what comes to my mind is how much they must love each other to have the courage to face all the negativity and stigma impose on them by society, and the prejudice and nastiness of the homophobes, or just the stupidity of narrow minded or misguided, hyper religious people.

    I see most gay people as courageous enough to be themselves, even if so many in the world (sometimes, even in their own family) tries so hard to intimidate them into hiding or denying their true sexuality.
     
  9. RedRepublic

    RedRepublic Banned at Members Request

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    I put HIV, anal sex and depression/suicides. It's kind of hard not to think of HIV since it's mainly a problem for the gay community and the bisexual community, I guess anal sex is a bit prejudiced since not all gay people necessarily enjoy that, but I don't think there's anything wrong with thinking depression/suicides since those problems certainly affect the gay community more because of discrimination in society.

    I don't think anyone should be blamed for what pops into their head, we can't control that. What matters is how we reflect intellectually on what popped into our head and how we actually decide to behave towards gay people in the real world.
     
  10. query

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    those

    Sexual Predation
    HIV/AIDS
    Anal Sex
    Promiscuity / Hedonism
     
  11. Mayor Snorkum

    Mayor Snorkum Banned

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    The Mayor is reminded that in the novel "Finley Wren" by Philip Wylie, published in 1928, the word "gay" was used to mean....homosexual, putting the lie to claims that the gays hijacked the word in the '70's.

    Another thing that comes to mind is that it was the Obama supporters that passed Proposition 8 in California, providing further evidence that the DemocRATs are and always have been the home of racism and intolerance in the United States.
     
  12. Sokkos

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    A sexuality. Nothing more and nothing less. Normal individuals.
     
  13. PropagandaMachine

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    My sexuality or happy people, depending on the context.
     
  14. GeddonM3

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    Flamboyance with a hint of obnoxious lol. nothing really bad though, i dont give a (*)(*)(*)(*) who you are screwing as long as it isnt me or my woman lol.
     
  15. Mrlittlelawyer

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    Well as it turns out the first thing that pops into my head is something else. I think of a word that is generally misused and has been destroyed in more than one way. Annoying to say the least. Then I begin to think of the rather bad things that result from being a homosexual including the sexual diseases and so on. :puke: It personally makes me feel a little sick.
     
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    Why do the thread mods allow this nonsense ?
     
  18. E_Pluribus_Venom

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    Boy bands...
     
  19. Middleroad

    Middleroad New Member Past Donor

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    You should be a Correction Officer for 6 months.
     
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    SpaceCricket79 New Member Past Donor

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    Why do you feel the need to be validated because of what you do in your bedroom?
     
  21. AllEvil

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    I think of homosexuality.
     
  22. philxx

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    Globaaly more hetrosexuals have Hiv\Aids then Bisexual ,Homosexuals Combined.

    "Gays" are not real people ,the scientific term you are searching for is Homosexual ,the term describing 'real "and normal Sexuality of a Human type.

    Gay came into vouge amongst the less educated phillistine Middle class in the 1980-90's ,and should have stayed their when disco died!

    Gay and lesbian are nothing but Political constructs of the radical middle class type,not real humans ,but Anti-Scientific Post -modernist Political ,double speak ,and an attack on the good people of the Island of lesbos in Greece.[the only real Lesbians]
     
  23. philxx

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    I have been waiting monthe to hear who this "We are".

    gay is not a definition of a society or Tribe ,or nation ,hang on ',Gayalia ",no sorry no such nation,maybe "We" is a religion ,the church of later day gays or something ,oh your "WE" are religious nutters .I get it now sorry ,of course the Church of laterday gays ,has the right to marriage.

    So what type of social organisation does Gay belong ,oh "Community ,of course the gay and lesbian 'Community or historically speaking ,prehistoric tribal Community.

    What is this 'Who we are",you want community over Nation to regress society millenium ,OK ,move away from the drugs ,ain't happening on this Working Class Australians watch ,Bucko.

    gay community think is even more reactionary then ,Zionism at least they want a return of Zion 2000BC,not primative community without Agriculture.

    What is gay community again?????

    When One says Homosexual or bisexual or Hetrosexual we all know that means Human sexuality .

    Normal sexuality of humans ,what is YOUR problem ,have to be gay and ANTI-SCIENTIFIC ,of course Science didn't exist in Community forms of Human society 100 000 to 4000 BCE ,now did it.

    "gay " didn't exist before backward phillistine Anti-Scientific Radical trash of Universities ,came up with the stupidity .[cultural Identity Politics of the Post-Modernist Type]circa 1990.

    So I will ask again ,[don't expect answer]WHAT IS GAY other then HAPPY an emotional state[feelings nothing else]

    oh lets not forget LESBIAN means Inhabitant of the greek Island of Lesbos ,not homosexual women!

    OH and BTW,are you a Queer nationalist ???

    Yes dorothy their are such things,QUEERALIENS I call them ,LGBTIQ!
     
  24. flounder

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    Why?, do you think criminals make good examples of what gays are like ? LOL
     
  25. Libhater

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    When I hear the word 'gay' I immediately think of the liberal infested freak-queer crowd of San Francisco that is represented by one of those two liberal female senators. You have your 'dykes on bikes' crowd, the huffinton puffington post lib crowd, I believe a gay mayor, moveon.org, and every 15 minutes of media fame bone-puffing fruitcake imaginable.
     

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