My son's gay high school friend is having sex with a 30-year-old man

not true at all, both are frowned on by society, but sadly in many states the law approves of both

 

This sort of anecdotal nonsense is more likely a concoction than a response.

 

16 is legal mostly everywhere and at that age your son`s friend knows enough to give informed consent. Maybe it is considered icky in our sexually repressed society, but certainly not a criminal matter.

 

wonder how old was Mary when Jesus was born? what is God's moral standard on this issue?

 

And here's blackrook again on this thread telling us that hairless boys are attractive to gay men. I'm wondering where he got 'that' idea? Probably the same place he gets a lot of his other ideas!

Seems to me that if a gay man prefers men then he wouldn't be preferring young boys that are more feminine. Maybe we should ask blackrook why that is. He seems to know a lot more about gayness and young boys than most of us. Hmmmmmmmmmm.

 

not condemned?? links??

 

I say BS to your story. You allow your son to have gay friends, really? Is your son gay, do you know? I think you made up the entire story, something I believe you have done in the past.

 

Exactly what would I do to make sure my son had no gay friends? Would I follow him to school? Would I ask each kid he talks to what their sexual orientation is? What an idiotic thing to say. More proof that all liberals are idiots when it comes down to it.

 

The OP is based upon anecdotal nonsense.

 

got any proof of that allegation??

 

"recruits to the fold"

WTF dude? When did you choose to be straight? People don't choose to be gay. You can't recruit them.

 

Recruits? Do they attend some sort of academy or schooling for this? What fold are you talking about?

 

Right and wrong are totally subjective and should have nothing to do with the law.

The only thing that should matter in the eyes of the law is objective harm. If something harms another party in an objective manner (meaning hurting someone's feelings or outraging their morality are right out) against their will then it should be illegal.

 

All liberals are idiots for sure! And all conservatives are closet gays like Larry Craig. Blackrook is trying to come out of the closet but is not quite sure if we'll still accept him if he does. His avatar is a phallic symbol.

 

That's only because you have a superior moral system than most Christians.

Don't you know that the correct Christian thing to do in this scenario is take an anonymous swipe at homosexuality in general?

 

Blackrook suppports catholic priests. It could be that he had a 'close' relationship with one of them when he was a boy.

 

Blackrook has made his choice to protect a child molester because it involves a friend of his son. Blackrook is complicit in the crime of pedophilia.

He needs to pray.

 

Please post ANY EVIDENCE WHAT SO EVER for this vile claim?

I dont think that you can, and are simply just trying to be as mean and hateful as you can hiding behind your little internet name.

 

I knew a 15 year old girl in high school who was having sex with a guy in his late twenties. Her parents found out because she was pregnant but they didn't prevent contact between the two. Tons of older men are attracted to teenage girls, so why should it surprise you that there are many gay men who are attracted to teenage boys? You have nothing, that's why you guys are losing on the gay rights issue.


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My face when you said you know that gay sex between older men and teenage boys is commonplace by virtue of one example. lmao

 

How does what your son's friend is doing make anything common place? If he jumped off a roof, would that mean gay teenagers jumping off roof's is common place?

I happen to think the situation should be treated the same regardless of regardless of the sex of the child, or the gender of the adult.

This is also illegal in California.
http://www.ageofconsent.com/california.htm

How can the 'gay community' condemn something that you acknowledge is being kept a secret?

And seriously- you think a 16 year old girl would be telling her parents that she is having sex with a 30 year old guy?

You should tell his parents. Frankly the older guy is breaking the law, and I feel absolutely the same regardless of who the 16 year old is.

Or report him to the police.

You mean like it happens for heterosexuals? The law even allows it in many states. Why should gays be treated differently than straights. I don't approve- but then again- Elvis started dating Priscilla when she was 14 years old.

There are men everywhere who have no problem having sex with teenagers- usually girls. Seriously are you not aware of this? Why do you think that most Playboy models are 18 or 19? If they could get away with 16 they would.

No....that is your world view.

 

But why should it be illegal to harm others? You just said right and wrong are totally subjective. So the fact that someone can be objectively proven to be harmed does not make it objectively wrong to harm them.

 

because society has decided that they don't want people to have the option to harm members of society. its got nothing to do with right or wrong. its completely about what society decides it will accept and what it wont.

 

Harm against another person's will is objectively bad. It has objective negative consequences.

Whether the harm is "good" or "bad" is none of the government's business.

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And where the line is drawn should not be arbitrary or subjective.

 

The police would not be interested. The boy is above the age of consent in my state. The parents can do nothing unless they plan to lock this boy in his room and keep him there. He runs off with strange men and has sex with them and there's nothing they can do about it. I hope he doesn't end up dead.

 

Oh thats right- you live in Las Vegas.

http://www.foxnews.com/entertainmen...stoddens-mom-approved-marriage-to-much-older/


Courtney Alexis Stodden, 16, married “Lost” actor Doug Hutchison, 51, in Las Vegas last month.

The marriage was legal because Las Vegas law states that as long as one parent or legal guardian consents, one can marry at the age of 16.

Stodden got that parental consent from her mom and dad, Alex and Krista Stodden.


Meanwhile if the parents of this child are not physically abusive, and if you believe that his involvement with an older man is harmful, go tell his parents.

Seriously- do what you would do if this was a 16 year old girl- since it is exactly the same situation.

Your son will hate you but you may save his friends life- I do not approve of 30 year old men having secret romances with 16 year olds.