3 Amazing Ways Becoming a Parent Changes You

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  1. RoddyMC

    RoddyMC Newly Registered

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    This is something you will get if you are a parent.
    If you have an abortion, you will be denying yourself these things.

     
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    If you have an abortion you will be denying yourself these things:


    * 9 months of pain and permanent damage to your body.


    * financial instability/loss.

    * career or further education loss.

    * job loss



    BTW, is the guy in the photo the one who has to go through NINE MONTHS of pregnancy ? No, so no wonder HE is smiling...
     
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    So your point is that everyone capable of breeding must now breed over and over, in order to experience these wonders?
     
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    I wouldn't worry about it. We have too many humans as it is, and someone needs to look after the cats.

    Besides, childless adults are so odd and self-absorbed, that we should regard them as an entertainment right. It's fascinating to see how much energy they give to remarkably vacuous things. It's not as though they have any concept of just how incredibly dull and shallow such an existence seems to someone who lives at the coal face of full blown humanity (in a family .. with all that that involves), so they can't help it, but still .. it's fascinating!
     
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    I doubt that's what they meant. There's a universe of difference between "you're missing out", and "you must breed".
     
  6. FoxHastings

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    Breeders take great comfort in breeding and living their lives through their children because they have nothing else.

    Others find great happiness and fulfillment in their own lives and the world around them.....
     
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    If women have abortions to advance their careers and attain higher level educational credentials, which type of women do you think it's going to be having these babies?

    That's not going to be good for the genepool in the long run.
     
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    Or you can just adopt a child that is being denied a permanent, loving home.
     
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    Actually this was a very sweet and honest video by a new Dad, that we will ruin by putting it in a context that was never intended. It is not offensive to pro choice groups to laud the wonder of a new born baby, and its power to change perspective. We have no clue after watching what he thinks about a woman's right to choose or Roe v Wade. Why are we allowing ourselves to be divided like this?
     
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    or you could lose all your limbs like this women

    "New mom who lost all her limbs after giving birth sues hospital"

    https://nypost.com/2017/10/13/new-mom-who-lost-all-her-limbs-after-giving-birth-sues-hospital/

    "For this new mom, what were supposed to be the happiest days of her life quickly descended into a terrifying ordeal that left her as a quadruple amputee."

    Only the women can decide to take the risk to have a baby or not
     
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    then of course you have people like Andrea Yates, had she had an abortion for the 5th child, 4 might be alive today, so you never know
     
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    What a ridiculous generalization.....are you insulting mothers by saying they are too stupid to have a career ???
     
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    Simply amazing how you can be called the worst things by yer kids for caring.
     
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    You are correct, I don't know what the OP topic is doing in the Abortion Forum.
     
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    I'm saying it's not good public policy to have the women who want to advance their career get abortions.

    It will harm us in the long term, starting in subsequent generations.
     
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    What TF are you talking about ??

    What "public policy"??? There is NO "public policy" to have women , any women, have abortions.....


    ...and even if their was where TF is the law saying women must follow this "public policy" ?????
     
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    Pro-choicers use the public policy argument in favor of abortions, so the reverse is only fair.
     
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    All healthy normal white babies put up for adoption immediately go to loving homes.
    There are long waiting lists for the families wishing to adopt.

    The real issue is other categories of children.

    Up until the Recession, babies were even being adopted into the US from Guatemala, so to simply say there's a shortage of adoptive parents is a bit disingenuous.
     
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    I think people that want kids should have them, if one doesn't want kids right now, they should not have them till later

    we always here the right attack parents for having kids they can't afford, but then attack them if they choose not too
     
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    many parents could not give up a child to an unknown person, they could be a child molester or something and that would drive them crazy thinking about
     
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    Oh, so that justifies aborting them
     
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    Yes, ideally they shouldn't have kids.
    Pro-Life doesn't believe abortion constitutes 'not having' kids.

    That's like trying to rectify a mistake with another mistake.
     
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    can't have it both ways

    a miscarriage is an abortion too

    just one is medically induced
     
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    I can see how some might view this as a "damned either way" scenario.
    But you really shouldn't be starting babies baking in the oven.
     
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    it justifies not bringing a child into this world, yes

    only the women can decide to risk life and limb to have a baby
     
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