50%of husbands have hit their spouse at least once.

Abusing someone who isn't able to fight back isn't at all risky.

Bullies are cowards at heart who are trying to make themselves feel strong.

 

No, like most people in prison bullies think they're awesome and bully people because they believe that everyone else is below them and so their needs (the bully's) outweighs the needs of everyone else.

The belief that bullies have low self esteem, etc went out years ago.

 

No, you are mistaken. The knowledge that bullies are cowards at heart is still valid today.

Bullies always choose people weaker than themselves to bully, or they bully by proxy.

That isn't the work of a brave person.

 

What does "bully by proxy" mean?

 

via the internet or telephone, for example, rather than face to face.

 

Can I be bullied by someone who can only type and shout in a wire? How is that a bullish threat? Or do you mean that they do that only to follow up with it using corrupt government officials and unfounded pesky expensive law suits?

 

Here you are:

http://www.antibullying.net/cyberbullying5.htm

 

I think part of the problem is that claims of domestic violence are a tactic in many cases. The courts and police are pretty biased about such things -- to the point where if a woman says a man hit her, he's an abuser, no matter what. And no amount of defense will matter. Just accuse a man of such a thing and he can kiss his kids goodbye -- forever basicly because no court in America will ever allow kids to live in the same house with an "abuser". She could have hit him 6 times with a baseball bat, but if he raises his hands to either grab her or slap her, he's an abuser. If she claims he's an abuser, he's an abuser, even if he never actually hit her. In essense most of these crimes are "j'accuse" crimes in which the woman only needs to claim that the event took place. I would also put date rape in the same catagory -- if the woman claims later that she was drunk or didn't want the sex, you're essentially a sex offender cut off from the rest of society forever.

That's why the stats are so high -- if you can basicly win anything you want in court by simply claiming to the police that your man hit you, why wouldn't you? It's an easy way to get the kids and alimony and child support and maybe the house as well.

 

100% of Men in my Family hasn't ... but don't push your luck.

 

Most of this domestic violence is not coming from white men.

It does not need to mentioned that essentially all of this abuse is coming from black men. There are not many black females with boyfriends from a different race in the USA.


77% of all Hispanic Texans indicate that either they, a family member and/or a friend have experienced some form of domestic violence. 2 out of every 5 Hispanic Texas females (39%) reported experience severe domestic violence abuse.
Texas Council on Family Violence


And do not try to blame it all on socioeconomics!

 

Total and complete nonsense.

Any higher numbers of violence comes from economic reasons...not race.

No race is more apt to hit their wives than another.

What a load of TOTALLY unprovable crap from and obviously INCREDIBLY biased source.

 

well i don't believe that. If it WERE so, then 50%plus of marriages would end in young widows. in jail or under suspicion.

 

My first and ex-husband got himself walked out on when he gave me a (*)(*)(*)(*)(*) slap.

We lasted 8 months.

Good thing to leave. We'd a killed one another. All worked out for the best.

 

You can say that white men have more money.
But white men are still not the ones abusing their women.

Ha, it is obvious that you are ignorant of reality!
Do some research. Blacks are significantly more prone to violence than Hispanics, even when all other factors are equal. And there is plenty of poverty among the vietnamese community, yet you do not see them turning to rape and violence.

What makes you think any of those sources were biased? Because they go against your beliefs that racial differences do not exist? None of those studies were intentionally trying to show that certain minorities comitt crime at higher rates. If you say it is "unprovable", I do not know how much more evidence you need. I challenge you to prove that some races are not more prone to violence than others.

 

I have personally known a dozen+ white guys (not me) that have physically abused their women. So that ridiculous theory of yours is out the window.

Now show me unbiased factual proof that 'black' men of similar economic background and present status physically treat their women any worse then 'white' men do.

Not some studies you nit pick (one from Rhode island...lol..yeah, that's a BIIIIIG state).

Absolute unbiased, factual proof.

Or your words mean nothing.


Btw...

'There's no gentle way to put it: People who give in to racism and prejudice may simply be dumb, according to a new study that is bound to stir public controversy.'

http://www.livescience.com/18132-intelligence-social-conservatism-racism.html


Have a racist free day.

 

Do you mean just "abuse", or do you mean real abuse, like this:

 

LOL

Ummmm....you do realize the thread subject is women being abused right?


I have personally known a dozen+ white guys (not me) that have physically abused their women. So that ridiculous theory of yours is out the window.

Now show me unbiased factual proof that 'black' men of similar economic background and present status physically treat their women any worse then 'white' men do.

Not some studies you nit pick (one from Rhode island...lol..yeah, that's a BIIIIIG state).

Absolute unbiased, factual proof.

Or your words mean nothing.


Btw...

'There's no gentle way to put it: People who give in to racism and prejudice may simply be dumb, according to a new study that is bound to stir public controversy.'

http://www.livescience.com/18132-intelligence-social-conservatism-racism.html


Have a racist free day.

 

How ironic. You are so quick to accept a study suggesting that racists might have lower intelligence, yet you completely dismiss the countless studies clearly showing a link between race and intelligence. You truely are close-minded.

 

Not just that study...I know from long years of experience.


Anyway, let me know when you can answer my question?

BTW - you will never be able to.


Don't forget that study now.

 

Interesting how peoples experiences are different. My mother got raped. Guess which ethnicity? My family had things stolen from their house by our former housecleaner. Guess which ethnicity? I was pick-pocketed by a gang of youth when I, having known better, entered into their ethnic neighborhood enclave. Guess which ethnicity? I had a gun threateningly flashed on me (proving that banning guns does not work). Guess which ethnicity? When I was younger, I was in a youth program for several months. Two of the other boys went out of control like monkeys and the police had to be called several times. They were the only two boys of that particular ethnicity in my group. Guess which ethnicity? It was not european. I having never knowingly observed any such behavior from europeans, even poles. Why is that?

 

So, you are clearly biased.

Whereas I am not.

Now please stop bugging me with your biased opinions.

Now either show me unbiased factual proof that 'black' men of similar economic background and present status physically treat their women any worse then 'white' men do or leave me alone.


And on an unrelated matter...racist people make me absolutely puke.

 

What I am trying to say is that accusing "men" of abusing "women" is just like accusing blacks or abusing whites. So many of the responders in this thread have a problem with racism, but are so completely blind that they did not see that the title of this thread was sexist. Unless the original poster had chose to title this thread "50% of married people have been abused by their spouse", bringing up the subject of race is fair game.

 

does that include a well place smack on the ass during "private time"?

 

Take a look at this action. Jennifer Lopez gives a 'playful smack' to Marc Anthony. hmmmm. Something tells me that she is not the most stable one in that former relationship and not even now. I'm not one for abusing women or men for that matter. But this incident. If i were him, i'd be wondering about how to go about finding someone who'd give her a quick lesson. Or i'd get an attorney

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbi...nd-Marc-Anthony-camera--claims-laugh-lot.html

 

Gotta love THAT!!!