This insight comes from Alex Youseff. Now more than ever we're seeing a ton of guys abstain from relationships, and abstain from dating as a whole. And on the surface, this makes zero sense, because hookup culture is more prevalent than ever. And hookup culture is said to be exactly what guys want, right? So what's the deal? The deal is that this is proof that guys don't want hookup culture. And most guys are actually pushed away from dating because of it. The harsh reality is that most women don't want to date most men. So what ends up happening is like only like this really high standard of a select few men get to actually date, and experience hookup culture, and experience the intimacy of relationships. And when those few guys have a plethora of opportunity in front of them, they end up being pompous. So what ends up happening is that most women only have dating experience with d(*)(*)(*)(*)(*)bags. And then the problem arises when women see that as all men; and then go to what's actually all men, and start creating this narrative that all men are trash, they're scumbags, and they only want one thing. So then you're left with the remaining 80% of guys being told that they are the villain in a story that they're not actually even a part of. Because of that, we're seeing this Moses-like exodus of guys fleeing the dating scene. And the craziest part is that this promised land that they're trying to find is simply peace of mind and being told that they're not the bad guy.