Well genetics doesn't make you fat, it may give you a predisposition for it based on the average diet but if you take ten fat people and feed them the average etheopian diet they will lose weight. If you take something like a black person and do that they won't stop being black. Where yes some attention needs to be payed to the various nutritional needs of people, diet isn't a one size fits all thing, there is a necessity for discipline. I remember hearing a woman talking about fat acceptance and how she didn't want to be judged for eating donuts. I don't think anybody should but it's precisely that kind of food that causes you to be fat. That's like an alcoholic saying they don't want to be judged for drinking. I've used to be fat, it was eating things like donuts that caused it. I can't eat that kind of thing. I care more about myself than having a treat. I find self destructive behavior to be sad, I have no idea why we should encourage it.
For most of our evolution, men did not have to raise children. It was just a race to impregnate. So sex drives evolved accordingly. The rules are different now, but the DNA is not. Men will date down, but women won't, unless you are rich. As for boundaries, I had some typos. Men can physically avoid being raped. Women can't, since they are weaker. So they are very picky whom they see in private. They either trust him completely, or are attracted to him enough they don't mind him doing stuff. This means many men will be rejected by women who otherwise would have done some stuff with them.
The reason women seem more in control of sex is because good looking guys are willing to sleep down, whereas women don't out of fear of being raped. If good looking guys were monogamous, or if women were stronger, then they'd sleep with average guys more. There is no difference in their brains.
What prejudice? That doesn't even make sense. Genetic predisposition for obesity is just that, a predisposition. It's 100% controllable based on nutrition, caloric intake, and exercise. There are a few medical conditions in which weight gain might be more or less uncontrollable by the person, but this is really a tiny percentage of the fat population and hardly seems worth mentioning in this context. On the other hand, height is 100% not controllable by life style choices. Your constant attempt to make this comparison at first seemed like a simple error on your part, but even having been corrected, you keep trying to fit this square peg into a round hole.As I said, for someone who has previously bragged about her teaching background, you seem terrible at it. I can't imagine being an alert student sitting in your class while you made this ridiculous comparison.
Most of the women in Hollywood or in the entertainment business are barely attractive. Without their 'handlers', their makeup artists, etc, no one would look twice at most of those women. But then there are women like Nicole Kidman, and Michelle Pfieffer who are naturally beautiful. I've seen pics of lady gaga without all the silly costumes and makeup she wears, and she is actually pretty.
That’s very sexist of you to believe that you have to flatter women and that’s why you’re gay. That’s so ridiculous. I’m sure gay men don’t like to be flattered LOL Why do you think that a woman can’t look handsome while she is wearing her black rim glasses and why can’t she look charming when her hair is messed up right out of bed? The fact that you say you feel you have to give women insincere flattery and that’s why you’re gay sounds silly.You’re gay because you’re gay of course many people will think you just chose it because you don’t want to flatter women insincerely
It is prejudiced to say that fat people have low character..that is prejudice... My students would be smart enough to understand what pre-judging a person for looks is about whether it be for being fat or for being short even though One might be able to control and one not be able to control. They understand that it is a terrible thing to refer her to somebody who is obese as having poor character without knowing the person. By the way I have a background in teaching about pre-prejudice and all the different isms. Why is that bragging? If I said I was a doctor when we were talking about medicine would I be bragging? Sounds like you don’t have much to brag about but you have to attack me
so it's very sexist to say that I have to be sexually attracted to a woman in order to have sex with her. Being gay is sexist, who knew? in asexual appealing way like I do with men? I don't know because I'm gay do you know what that means? if I figured out how to be attracted to women then I wouldn't be gay. I didn't say that. I didn't imply that I didn't allude to that. The flattery would be insincere any flattery because I'm gay. I don't want sex with women the idea so not repulsive is similar to being inspected by a doctor. Okay forgive me for letting my guard down opening up and being a human and showing rod real emotion I didn't know how much you hated that. men are supposed to be macho and manly and never express any feeling that makes them vulnerable. I'm sorry I forgot your female privilege for a second there and thought you might actually be a human being I struggled a lot with my sexuality. I tried to be with women I thought it was unfair to them to trick them into a relationship with me because I knew I was gay. Do you think it's right for a gay man to lie to a woman and tell her he is straight trick her into a relationship? I felt really guilty for that. I felt like I was lying to them. I guess I'm just more in touch with my emotions then the average man. I didn't know that's what you wanted out of men I keep hearing the opposite but apparently it's not true.
You're still lumping involuntary and voluntary together, as though they're equal. What you're saying here is the equivalent of: "a junkie is no different to a short man". It's patently absurd. I really hope you're not teaching kids this stuff, because if they take you seriously you're essentially exposing them to a potential lifetime of misery with an 'addict'. Our kids must know the difference, for their own safety and sanity. They must be taught to discriminate on CHARACTER, not accidents of birth (skin colour, height, etc), and you are attempting to break down that very important distinction. I have no idea why you would want to do that.
I wouldn't brag about that if I were you since you seem terrible at it. The issue of control is exactly the difference between the fat/short dynamic. This is a post about dating after all, and the issue of control is secondary. First comes the issue of attractiveness; fat ain't attractive. Secondly, the issue of control: Out of a thousand fat people, one of them might have a genuine medical issue. So should I have to research all 1000 fat chicks to determine which one really exhibits good self control? That's simply ridiculous.
Very good points, and yes, she does seem to be suggesting that we should all feel compelled to research every addict we meet to see if there isn't some 'excuse' we can employ to justify bringing them into our lives. It's quite Orwellian. Reminds me of that compelled speech law (regarding pronouns) in Canada.
I guess all those women who ignored you had a negative impact on your attitudes . I have a feeling you couldn’t get a decent girl now for being a lard ass but because you were so damaged. the rejections made you blame them for “being shallow.” I’ve had more life experiences than you I am sure. I was underweight but it wasn’t the stigma of being fat is. I have a feeling that you’re still overweight but the Internet is great because you could say anything
Lady, you may as well give it up. You don't have a 1/10th of the life experience that I've had nor did you endure 1/100th of the 'bullying' that I endured when I was a kid. They didn't call it bullying back then, they called it just the way it is. And I am fine with that. If people would have told me "it's okay to be a lard ass" like they do now days, then I would have been brainwashed into believing it was okay. But it's not. I am thankful for the total **** I had to put up with, but the shoe is on the other foot now, so no, I don't like fatties...especially tattooed-up fatties. Good god American women have gone down the toilet. Thanks feminazis. I guess you're not underweight anymore, are you? The average American woman's weight has escalated to about 171....which is more than me. Lots and lots of fat cows out there now, that's why I date foreign women. Your responses are further proof of women's delusions about dating and life in general. Hey, American women, nobody wants you....except desperate guys who don't know any better.
Mister, How do you know the life experiences i had ? You’re right I wasn’t bullied. I’m probably older than you and we always had the term bullying back then they didn’t call it ljust the way it was” . I grew up when it wasn’t cool to be skinny and I was but nobody bullied me. And being a teacher in inner-city Brooklyn I am a quite familiar with bullying. So basically what has happened to you is you get pleasure in being a victimizer rather than the victim...Most adults who were bullied are usually sensitive but you identify with the bully. They sure damaged you I won’t address the rest of your hatred for women because it is obvious you have been damaged, probably rejected over and over. I don’t think you date foreign women because you don’t like American women I think it’s because you can’t get a date with an American woman and you have to resort to a foreign woman and probably pay her.
rule #1: if the person you're about to date needs to be coddled... turn & run these last few posts above suggest that too many kids are being coddled for pc correctness sake, doesn't bode well for the future... time to 'trim the fat'
We will likely never evolve beyong the mating drivers. Why on earth do you think we even register 'good looks'? It's not because of some refined artistic sensibility, you know. It's brute animal stuff.
This, to the power of 10. That potential mate should not require more accommodation from you than 'unit of homo sapiens, in good condition'.
Actually more than I really care to admit....when talking numbers of women. Not that it's any of your business but you're probably one of those types with a certain syndrome.....hence your comment.
I don't date American women because they are likely spoiled fat cows covered in tattoos who act like men. And just like this thread suggests, they are likely delusional. I have standards. What comes around goes around. Don't want'm, don't need'm.
I think you're on to something. It's like Renee is a secret creationist. But we've millions of years of evolution that has honed mating selection triggers. Having a bigger brain than we used to hasn't changed that, it's just allowed us the ability to create rationales for doing what our instincts are driving us to do.
