Are women who use their sexuality for personal gain any better than street whores?

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  1. Up On the Governor

    Up On the Governor Well-Known Member

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    Honestly, emotional attachments are not that important. You can have sex to have sex. Some people need that feeling. However, you do need to get to know someone in today's society. Not to necessarily build a relationship with them, but to find out what kind of baggage (both emotional and physical- venereal diseases) they carry.

    No such thing as "no strings attached" anymore. For both men and women.
     
  2. Courtney203

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    there is quite a difference but I don't suspect you would ever admit that because men are the ultimate suppressors right?

    If prostitution were legal, there would be no pimps. Only a financial agreement between two consenting adults. Im sure the same reason many women decide to work at strip clubs is the same reason they are out on the street picking up johns.. They are forced to by men.
     
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    Makedde New Member Past Donor

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    I do not approve of one night stands. They are immoral, IMO. But I would certainly not seek to ban them.
     
  4. Up On the Governor

    Up On the Governor Well-Known Member

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    I do not either. Not my style, but I certainly understand them. We are sexual beings by nature. How would you seek to ban them? Chastity belts with padlocks?
     
  5. Hummingbird

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    Not to mention some creeping crud they could get....
     
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    I wouldn't seek to ban them. I would just hope that they regret their actions. Coming home with an STI should be enough to make that the last time they have a one night stand.
     
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    Meh, yes and no. There is certainly a parallel there, but I'm not sure it's right to single them out. A lot of people use a lot of different means to manipulate people for personal gain. The bully uses brute force. The snake uses charisma. The martyr uses sympathy. The thing to focus on is that they are doing what they are doing purely for personal gain, not so much how they are doing it.

    I do think the man who falls for the feminine wiles and gets taken is a chump, though. So when that is taken into consideration, it is difficult to really be angry at the women. Their sexuality only has as much influence on you as you allow it to. It's your job as a man to keep your mind strong.
     
  8. DA60

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    A man who pays to have sex with a woman is just as 'bad' as the woman whom he paid to have sex with.

    Worse if the man is married and she is not...and most 'clients' are married.
     
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    Seriously, how can you have a healthy, loving & lasting marriage/relationship w/someone w/o emotional attachments?
     
  10. jack4freedom

    jack4freedom Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Do you have anything to back these assertions up, or are you just blowing it out your arse? What gives you the right to judge anyone? Are you a divine being?
     
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    jack4freedom Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    No they are not. Are they any worse than you?
     
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    'Equally typical were the men in Farley’s study, who lived in the Boston area and ranged from 20 to 75, with an average age of 41. Most were married or partnered, like the majority of men who patronize prostitutes.'

    http://www.thedailybeast.com/newsweek/2011/07/17/the-growing-demand-for-prostitution.html



    And who am I to pass judgement?

    A human being.


    Have a nice day.
     
  13. DA60

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    You should not call an escort a 'whore'.

    And if you have to ask why you should not - then there is no point in trying to explain it to you.
     
  14. Viv

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    ...that is the point I was making, btw....women are forced to discriminate between calculating men every day and are expected to do so, in just the same way men have to try to weed out gold diggers. The same level of risk exists for both.
     
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    Yes they can. And some men can be just as devious as some women. Although some women are quite tediously stupid...

    I ask about dating agencies because dating agencies are a way to meet people, but they are also a way to screen people and find out if someone is compatible in certain key areas and then zero in on those who appear on the face of it to have some of the qualities you view as desirable in a partner.

    The hearse-chaser is doing just that, without paying a dating agency.
     
  16. Viv

    Viv Banned by Request

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    Your posting style seems very familiar. Do you maybe have another nick here?
     
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    Well I interpeted your response as being an angry one too, since your reply to me was...



    Now how exactly did you use yourself as an example to "shoot that generalization down?" What do you and your fiance do for a living? The implication from your statement is that you are higher status-wise than your fiance.

    And that you're pissed about it.
     
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    Very strange that dedicate so much time and space on this forum for thread-starter.
    But certainly that's obvious that there he is having a serious problems to make a date to woman . If thread-starter is not a women of course
     
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    That may be because you are trolling the singles bars for women!! Did you ever consider that? I met my current girlfriend in graduate school. She isn't the singles bar type. She is the type you would find sitting at a cafe reading or at the park with her friends. That is not to say she never goes out, but she just doesn't go out to clubs or singles bars looking for guys.
     
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    I am confused..... You are an atheist correct? If that is correct, what is the source of morality in your world? What makes one night stands immoral? You are simply projecting your own personal normative assumptions onto everyone. It is ok to say one night stands are not for you, it doesn't make sense to say they are immoral for everyone!! Unless of course you are religious, which would then open up an entirely separate debate!!
     
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    I realize, but it was the terms he used. I was having the debate on his terms, I suppose that was a mistake!!
     
  22. DA60

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    My mistake.

    But yes, you might wish to be clearer in the future...for the sake of your reputation in case others do not call you on it.
     
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    There was an Apprentice episode where Donald Trump divided the contestants to 2 groups by their genders. After a few rounds where they had to sell various things at various places, it became obvious that the female group would always win the contests because female sexuality sells, even if it is not intentional.

    But women rarely want to be direct competitors of men, so women using their sexuality to achieve things should be fine, I think. Most women don't use it though because they know that that strategy may easily lead them to be lonely and derated, especially by fellow women.
     
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    Women have become...women have become. Men have been that way for...ever.
     
  25. DA60

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    So you no longer respect ANYTHING women say anymore?

    This partially explains why your posts tend to read as they do.

    To decide what 3 billion plus people are like on the basis of a few hundred conversations from women in singles bars is ridiculous - no offense.

    You base your research on women in 'singles bars'?

    Women (and men) that frequent those places on a regular basis are usually the most shallow and superficial and emotionally confused people in society.


    It sounds like you don't get along with women and have decided that the fault must be with them...all of them...wherever they are.

    How convenient.
     

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