Repealing age limits for sexual relationships.

I think a lot of pedophiles are probably suffering from a severe case of stupidity and brain malfunction. Not only are they socially retarded but they are just plain old retarded.

 

Have you had sex with any children? Go turn yourself into the authorities or better yet, to the parents of the child.

 

Go tell the child's father what you want to do with the child.

 

You would not be allowed to hug or even come anywhere NEAR my child. I wouldn't even want you looking at my child. I would gouge your eyeballs out of your tiny little stupid head.

 

People need to tell their children that monsters really do exist, but they come in human forms. If you think someone is a weirdo, then best to avoid them because they probably are and always follow your gut instincts about a person because you are usually right about them!

 

It has been repeated over and over again not explained. And we currently discussing this issue, until we solve it I cannot share your opinion.

 

Everyone has tried to explain it to you. You don't want to understand because you want to be justified in your disgusting feelings towards children. Everyone agrees that pedophiles or anyone who would take advantage of the inexperience and innocence of a child is a rotten terrible and (even though I don't really like to use this word) EVIL person. EVIL.

 

He can't give legal consent to anything, but he still can do many things? Why not sex?

 

Do you?

 

Now respond to this.

Effects of Child Sexual Abuse on Victims
For victims, the effects of child sexual abuse can be devastating. Victims may feel significant distress and display a wide range of psychological symptoms, both short- and long-term. They may feel powerless, ashamed, and distrustful of others. The abuse may disrupt victims’ development and increase the likelihood that they will experience other sexual assaults in the future.


In the short-term (up to two years), victims may exhibit regressive behaviors (e.g., thumb-sucking and bed-wetting in younger children), sleep disturbances, eating problems, behavior and/or performance problems at school, and unwillingness to participate in school or social activities (p.4).

Longer-term effects may be wide-ranging, to include anxiety-related, self-destructive behaviors such as alcoholism or drug abuse, anxiety attacks, and insomnia (p.4).

Victims may show fear and anxiety in response to people who share characteristics of the abuser, i.e., the same sex as the abuser or similar physical characteristics. Victims may experience difficulties in adult relationships and adult sexual functioning (page 4).

Survivors may feel anger at the abuser, at adults who failed to protect them, and at themselves for not having been able to stop the abuse (page 1).

Victims may experience traumatic sexualization, or the shaping of their sexuality in “developmentally inappropriate” and “interpersonally dysfunctional” ways (page 2).

Victims may feel betrayed and an inability to trust adults because someone they depended on has caused them great harm or failed to protect them (pages 2-3).

Victims may feel powerless because the abuse has repeatedly violated their body space and acted against their will through coercion and manipulation (page 3).

Abusers may cause victims to feel stigmatized (i.e., ashamed, bad, deviant) and responsible for the molestation (pages 3-4).

Victims of child sexual abuse have higher rates of revictimization (later sexual assaults) than non-victims (pages 131-132).

Some victims may appear to be free of the above symptoms (page 16.

A study conducted in 1986 found that 63% of women who had suffered sexual abuse by a family member also reported a rape or attempted rape after the age of 14. Recent studies in 2000, 2002, and 2005 have all concluded similar results (page 8).

Children who had an experience of rape or attempted rape in their adolescent years were 13.7 times more likely to experience rape or attempted rape in their first year of college (page 9).

Those with a prior history of sexual victimization are extremely likely to be re-victimized. Some research estimates an increased risk of over 1000%.

A child who is the victim of prolonged sexual abuse usually develops low self-esteem, a feeling of worthlessness and an abnormal or distorted view of sex. The child may become withdrawn and mistrustful of adults, and can become suicidal (page 1).

 

It is a fact that a child cannot give legal consent to anything. I care not whether you share the opinion, only that you acknowledge the fact in law.

 

Did you read my answer on this last time? There is no effects, there is only correlation. Just like homosexual sex correlates with drug abuse and suicide rate. Correlation does not imply causation. And in this case the real cause is not actions itself, but how you perceive them. It's reaction makes harm to children not actions itself.

 

Quite agree with you that many are stupid and have a brain malfunction, however there are also some who are very clever, they are the most dangerous ones. Those that seek to justify themselves.

 

These effects have been noted across the board with child sexual assault victims. Is this a chance we would want to take to allow YOU to have sex with our children? You sick ****!

 

If it's a fact you can easily prove it. Give me definition of "consent" you're using and prove how children can not give it.

 

So, basically, you are saying that we should IGNORE these symptoms because they cannot be (even though they actually HAVE been) directly correlated to the sexual assault of children? That it is okay to take this risk because of your selfishness in wanting to have sex with kids? You need to be institutionalized and never let out!

 

Consent is when you understand ALL of the implications and the consequences that can result from your actions and you willing agree to do so with a FULL and adult understanding of these things.

 

Imagine there are two situations:
One: Candy was put in a child's mouth.
Second: Something different (try to guess what) covered with something sweet was put in a child's mouth.
In the first situation nothing serious happened, in the second situation child was psychologically damaged for the rest of his life.
What was different between these situations? Chemical composition of sweet? No. May be form of objects? No. Temperature? No. May be... difference in our own moral judgments for these two situation? Yes! That's it! That's the difference! In the first situation we have no problem with that, in the second we see it's appalling. That is why in the first case it makes nothing serious to the child, and in the second it makes him a big harm. It's not about actions itself, it's about how we see them.

 

I've already posted the scientific data on the child's brain that explains WHY they cannot give consent. It's because their brains are not fully functional yet. They do not have the certain "connections" necessary to understand the short and long term consequences of their actions.

 

Was it a line from a movie, "some people just need killin'"?

 

BTW, I've reported you to the authorities.

 

Thanks for giving us a heads up. Now the police will be watching you, and now you can NOT harm any children.

 

Sex is not damaging, your perception of sex is damaging not action itself. You perceive it as something disgusting, and that makes harm to children.

 

The experts in the field of child psychology say it is harmful to a child's psyche, and it is obviously, and if you have ever known a person who has been sexually molested as a child, then it is obvious that it does a LOT of damage. I have a friend who was molested, and she is a mess still to this day, and that was well over 25 years ago!

 

Consent
Voluntary Acquiescence to the proposal of another; the act or result of reaching an accord; a concurrence of minds; actualwillingness that an act or an infringement of an interest shall occur.

Consent is an act of reason and deliberation. A person who possesses and exercises sufficient mental capacity to make anintelligent decision demonstrates consent by performing an act recommended by another. Consent assumes a physicalpower to act and a reflective, determined, and unencumbered exertion of these powers. It is an act unaffected by Fraud,duress, or sometimes even mistake when these factors are not the reason for the consent. Consent is implied in everyagreement.

Parties who terminate litigation pursuant to a consent judgment agree to the terms of a decision that is entered into the courtrecord subsequent to its approval by the court.

In the context of rape, submission due to apprehension or terror is not real consent. There must be a choice betweenresistance and acquiescence. If a woman resists to the point where additional resistance would be futile or until herresistance is forcibly overcome, submission thereafter is not consent.

http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/consent

A child’s permission does not equal legal consent
Even if a child or underage teen gives permission or acts willingly, this never implies consent. A child is never accountable. A child’s permission or even request to play a sexual touching or watching game never excuses the adult or teen from taking full responsibility for the interaction.

It is always the adult’s responsibility to set boundaries with children and underage teens. Sometimes people justify their sexual activity with children by saying the child “wanted” to or the child touched them first. They may misread a child’s affection as sexual. They may tell themselves “Age is just a number” or “S/he looks and acts older so it’s okay.” If someone you know is unclear about boundaries with children, remind them of their responsibility to set boundaries and the potentially high consequences to them if they don’t.

http://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/why-permission-from-a-child-or-underage-teen-doesnt-count

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