Life sucks sometimes. If we were exposed to the whole world with enough time, most of us would probably find someone. I don't have anyone and don't want anyone. I won't be choosing any of those flavors. There are so many variables that go into the equation, one cannot say it is simply a body type that will make or break a chance at love. I've either dated or married all different body types, though not all races. I have been seriously attracted to a few of each, black women, Asian women, latin American women, Indian women, Middle eastern women, and Sicilian women. Each woman varied in body type with none being at either extreme. I've known men who only find large women attractive. I knew men who loved very thin women. Their personalities were similar, but not the same. Humans are unique. I don't know what you are getting at. There is so much involved, I think the idea that some will never get chosen is more about the person who believes that than about those who might find them attractive. If you start out figuring you are not attractive, it will be noticed.