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What is wrong with "slut shaming"?

Discussion in 'Political Opinions & Beliefs' started by Dayton3, Dec 29, 2019.

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  1. Sleep Monster

    Sleep Monster Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Because it is hurtful to the other person. Didn't we learn this in kindergarten?
     
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    Sleep Monster Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    OMG!!! That old bit of stupid fingerpointing is beyond annoying, it is egregiously insulting! What is wrong with you?

    I don't judge actions between consenting adults. Rape and pedophilia are never consensual, so judge away.

    This is logical stuff, so why do you keep deliberately posting your personal misunderstandings of what I and others mean? You are way off the mark here. Just trying to pick fights? Please get a life.
     
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  3. CCitizen

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    Yes: Disagreeing with a SJW on Twitter and most Social Media will get a man called incel.
     
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    1) Promiscuity is a sin. Of course, all people have sins and few can judge others.

    2) Only if they use similar attacks first. For instance they call a man who disagrees with SJWs an incel. Then they can be asked if they are

    -- Victims of Patriarchal Exploitation
    -- Physical Therapists

    They may be biology tutors charging $500 per hour.
     
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    Many women who stand up for men are called "pick-me". There are many man-specific insults.

    I am not saying that slut-shaming is ethical -- it is not. I am saying that I am ethical to those ethical toward me.
     
    CCitizen, Dec 30, 2019
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    In the long run self control and self denial will gain you more in life than simply giving in to the basest of desires.
     
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    I didn't go to kindergarten.
     
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    consenting adults is an evolving standard and different at various locations. It is hardly a fixed concept.
     
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    Because your narrow view of reality has no bearing on reality. Some people have a strong sex drive. You don't. In fact you can't even understand it. So accept that fact and stop looking for reasons to judge others. Aren't you supposed to be a christian?
     
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    FYI - Sex has been around far far far longer than marriage has.
    And marriage is never been a requirement for sex.
    Most couples will limit their sex to partner within a marriage. Even non married committed couples will limit sex to significant other.

    But for those not in a relationship, sex can happen with anyone. Basic human function and need.
     
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    That is a truly misogynist viewpoint.

    If a dude is gonna mess around, get snipped or be prepared to pay child support.
     
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    Despite people trotting out the one line in the Bible about "not judging" Christians are routinely shown to be judging other peoples sins and calling them on it in the New Testament.

    Promiscuity is damaging to America.
    If it damages America then it is my business even if millions of you piously choose to ignore it.

    https://www.google.com/search?sxsrf...&ved=0ahUKEwioyY268N7mAhUB26wKHWIVDP8Q4dUDCAs
     
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    If one were to get really technical, Jesus has no words in the bible.
    Anything he supposedly said is written by another person.
     
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    Is fat shaming ok?

    Are you at proper weight?
     
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    It seems like they've offered as much justification for their condemnations as you've offered for yours. Sorry.
     
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    :) And it's not surprising that you haven't been able to answers any of my questions.....which leads me to believe there isn't much to your "agenda".

    BTW, what is your agenda? To track the sex habits of all women? Spy on them to see how many times they have sex? LOL!
     
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    DUH, promiscuity has been around since HUMANS have been around...…


    How do you plan to stop it , lock MEN up?


    I think you conveniently forget that if a woman has sex it's usually with men.....men have sex, too.....
     
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    Fatties need to be shamed. It's perfectly okay. :thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup:
     
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    DUH, promiscuity has been around since HUMANS have been around...…


    How do you plan to stop it , lock MEN up?


    I think you conveniently forget that if a woman has sex it's usually with men.....men have sex, too....


    I should have ammended that statement to say that SOME men have sex ....and the others slut shame people . :)
     
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    No it's not. We judge pedophiles for their sexual behavior, I would say it's unethical not to.
     
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    Slut shaming seems to be an issue with feminists. They don't like the double standard where a man who gets around with a lot of women is seen as an alpha, and women who do it are considered sluts.

    There is a double standard, but I think they are going the wrong way. Instead of saying we shouldn't shame people for shameful behavior we should shame men equally to women. After all sluts don't become sluts without men.
     
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    Sometimes what you need to hear can hurt your feelings. If you are engaging in self destructive behavior you need to have your feelings hurt.
     
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    Murder has been around forever, so has child molestation, drug addiction and many other vices. Should those all be permitted?
     
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    I've kept my thoughts to myself about the young Bamalama women who left a bar with two men she didn't know.

    But it's Darwinism completing its mission.
     
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