It isn't though, is it? If you got pregnant and the man who got you pregnant wanted you to have an abortion, what could he do? Nothing! "It is the woman's body, and her decision"

It is not an issue about sexism or responsibility. It is about personal choice. I would have no desire to be involved, why should I be forced into it? It is not supporting the child, because the child will not know if you were their at the birth or the prenatal classes or not. the child will only know if the father was there for them in life, and if they are what difference does this make.

My opinion is that women make men go, because they don't want to have to explain to everyone else why the father isn't their. If you tell the other women he doesn't want to, they will all judge you right! Or it is because they don't want to be their alone, and if that is the case why can't the man catch up on his reading!

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To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead. Thomas Paine

How so? The man has no say! this is what chris rock has to say, and it is very true! It is not at the beginning, so you have to be patient! And he is right all we can say is "so what you gonna do?"

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To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead. Thomas Paine

I'm more interested in why you would have no desire to go? It might not be supportive of the child - but you are telling me you have no desire to support the mother of your child?

Correct me if I'm wrong, but if you agree to have sex, and neither of you use contraception, and you get pregnant, and you agree to keep the baby, how then is it ok for you not to be involved in the process?

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Besides I don't believe you anyway. I bet if you were having a baby and the situation with you and your partner was good you'd want to be involved. It's very exciting and profound - for both of you.

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I know how you feel BB next they will want us to give birth

I was involved in the process, and it would have probably lasted around 10 minutes! You sound like a conservative now! Just because those are your values, that does not mean everyone needs to share those values.

There will be many activities throughout a child's life where one parent will be more involved than the other. I have a 10 year old nephew, and my sister didn't marry his father until he was 6. He lived with us for about 3 years, and he is like the little brother I never had. I support him a whole lot, but I wasn't even at the hospital when he was born.

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To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead. Thomas Paine

Oh I if I ever have a baby, I am sure I will go, but not because I want to. But because I don't like to argue unless it is something I think is important. Where I believe there is no reason I should be their. It is not something I would oppose enough to not go. But I can guarantee one thing, I will not be in the delivery room when the baby is born!!!!!!

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To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead. Thomas Paine

You see what largesse can we should never have taught our ex colonial serfs to read? in both cases

Is that because it would freak you out?

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