- as should always be the case

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"The basic problems facing the world today are not susceptible to a military solution."

- JFK

But I think women often say it's for themselves when it's really so they'll be more attractive to men, even if they do so unconciously.

Think about it ... it's the same with men. We'll say we go to the gym to pump up so that we ... (wait ...why do we say we do it?) Well, we all KNOW it's so we'll look better to the ladies, or at least we think they'll think we look better.

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"The basic problems facing the world today are not susceptible to a military solution."

- JFK

When I was lifting weights, I enjoyed looking at myself as much as I was curious what girls thought.

If birds could pay the bill, I'm sure they'd all go for big, flashy feathers. Guys (well those who date women) are going to act and dress in a way that is most likely to attract women. Women (yeah, those who date men) are going to act and dress is a way that's most likely to attract men. People who hack themselves up (for whatever reason) have their own set of problems. Bending to society's will, when it's not good for you, is an indication that one is weak, IMO.

I'm more attracted to intelligent women, when it comes down to beauty vs. brains. Not that I'm such a catch, but if more men were of that mindset, would more girls hang out in the library? I dunno. Everyone wants to be found attractive. That's just nature in action. But I think implants and enhancements are just taking it too far. JMHO, but it turns me off. Maybe some guys like that sort of thing - which is their right too. The girl I mentioned above is married and I'm sure she and her husband enjoy the new toys she bought... I guess (not like I asked too many questions).

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"Tweeter was a Boyscout before she went to Vietnam and found out the hard way... nobody gives a d@mn."

My ex-fiance was a D (natural ), while my last girlfriend was a B - but she wore those things when she wore sweaters. I don't know what they're called... instant C cup airbag thingies? When people see you everyday and on Monday you're a small B, while on Tuesday you're a large C...

I think she should have developed the mindset you've expressed. You have to believe in yourself before anyone else can believe in you. And part of lifting and training is testing your limits and seeing what you can do for you. I think you've chosen a path that you'll never regret.

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"Tweeter was a Boyscout before she went to Vietnam and found out the hard way... nobody gives a d@mn."

That would be a great name for a band

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"You sound like a gen-x coffee house dick" - From the outtakes to Office Space

bouncing boobies

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I am a stone, I do not move. I take my time, I let him come closer. I have only one bullet. I aim at his eye. I do not tremble, I have no fear.

I find weight training and running very satisfying, but although I want to look good for myself, I find the compliments very gratifying...

I got wolf-whistled this morning at the Circle K when I was buying coffee...that was kinda cool.

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Bugalugs: "people join the military because they are stupid and gullible."

Instant c cup airbag thingies, eh? Um, great name for a band too Not as good as The Clitoris that Thought it was a Puppy but close (not sure that was a real band but it was rumored to be).

She probably had either some form of a wonder bra (much lifting and separating action) or a water bra - as shown on one of my favorite episodes of Will and Grace. Grace got one and sprung a leak...too funny.

I'm pretty happy with myself in that area actually. Definitely don't need enhancements (though I am always amused to see wonder bras in my size) but never considered reduction either. The rest of me could use some work but I'm not overly concerned either. It probably helps that I'm not looking all that hard for a man and don't need one to make me happy. But I can't imagine staying with one who insisted on major physical changes either. They pretty much have to want me on an "as is" basis.

Ack, I'm babbling.. I think that made sense though...

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"Life's a b*tch so I became one" - Rusty in the movie Flawless

i get a lot of girls stopping & smiling at me....unfortenatly it's because of my accent, not my looks. Though i get too talk to a lot of girls, and via numbers/odds my chances increase. Infact my girlfriend (well not anymore, im dumping her today, or whenever im brave enough to txt her ) jokingly said she was only going out with me because of it lol.

Seriously though, im very handsome....at least thats what my mommy says heh heh.

As for fitness, i'll have 2 show you pics of 2 of my rugby mates...more muscles than a bag of cockles.

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I am a stone, I do not move. I take my time, I let him come closer. I have only one bullet. I aim at his eye. I do not tremble, I have no fear.

That is such an utterly cowardly and classless thing to do.

God, things were so much more civilized in my day when men actually would take you out for a nice dinner to break up.

Catz

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I love the smell of napalm in the morning...It smells like victory.

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Bugalugs: "people join the military because they are stupid and gullible."