Thread: What kind of women are sluts?

You're giving yourself away again, son. Girls are girly and many of us just don't like smelly, dirty...we're girls. I don't judge, I just genuinely don't like it. Also as before, it's a well tested man-method to control by use of vulgarity to put women at a disadvantage.

I work with men, btw. They don't speak that way to me and would pick you up on it if you did.

Uhh...I believe that UOTG is a woman.

Originally Posted by Hummingbird

I know for a fact that I'm not the only women who prefers a conversation w/a guy of a little higher intellect than wanting to discuss poop - or some other 'stimulating' topic of that nature... 'if he couldn't, he'd sit on his hands and ... be boring'. Lol. Wow! What some women will accept just to keep a guy happy. Well, I wouldn't and if that makes me 'judgemental and prissy' - then so be it.....

Get off your pedestal. Jesus tap-dancing Christ. Ridiculous...

Originally Posted by Viv

You're giving yourself away again, son. Girls are girly and many of us just don't like smelly, dirty...we're girls. I don't judge, I just genuinely don't like it. Also as before, it's a well tested man-method to control by use of vulgarity to put women at a disadvantage.

I work with men, btw. They don't speak that way to me and would pick you up on it if you did.

Giving myself away as being a different woman? No (*)(*)(*)(*). You and I are cut from a different mold. To think that everyone has to conform to being like you is a little disappointing. I thought better of you. I don't think you know what you want out of "equality" because you should be happy women like me exist. You know, we have made our way in an industry dominated by men. A culture that drowns in testosterone. Are you not proud of women's achievements? Or do I need to waste hundreds of dollars on shoes and makeup, read Better Homes and Gardens, and scream if there is a common house spider on my vanity in order to appease other females?

And it's possible they don't speak that way to you because you would get pissed and rant about how they are trying to box you out of the workforce. Vulgarity doesn't put us at a disadvantage. How did you even come up with that?

Originally Posted by Jarlaxle

Uhh...I believe that UOTG is a woman.

I am, but the funny thing about most women is...they hate other women. Especially if the other woman is nothing like them. At least I work with men...

Originally Posted by Up On the Governor

Get off your pedestal. Jesus tap-dancing Christ. Ridiculous...




I am, but the funny thing about most women is...they hate other women. Especially if the other woman is nothing like them. At least I work with men...

Well, gee ... aren't we touchy? Didn't mean to rattle your cage - was just explaining that some women don't like the 'bodily function' stories/graphic stuff that comes out of the mouths of some guys....pedestal? Not hardly.... it's just our preference to conversations ......

As far as your stupid statement about women hating other women - well, m/b that's true in your world, but I've rarely met a woman who hated women. There's a lot to be said for this thing called 'sisterhood'....

"At least I work with men"..... what the hell? I hope you're not silly enuf to really believe you're the only woman who's 'worked w/men'... strange comment.

Originally Posted by Hummingbird

Well, gee ... aren't we touchy? Didn't mean to rattle your cage - was just explaining that some women don't like the 'bodily function' stories/graphic stuff that comes out of the mouths of some guys....pedestal? Not hardly.... it's just our preference to conversations ......

Ugh. Here we go. No one is touchy except you who's predictably defensive. I know how I come across. It's not normal and I can see how sensitive people misinterpret it as "touchy." You'll learn it eventually.

First of all, I never said I liked the conversations. Where did you pull that bull(*)(*)(*)(*) from? You clearly missed the point I made about being respected as "one of them" and chose to focus on poop conversations. Weird. Secondly, assuming the males I work and associate with are of "lesser intelligence" is where you stepped off the (*)(*)(*)(*)wagon. Laugh out loud.

As far as your stupid statement about women hating other women - well, m/b that's true in your world, but I've rarely met a woman who hated women. There's a lot to be said for this thing called 'sisterhood'....

It is true in the real world.

"At least I work with men"..... what the hell? I hope you're not silly enuf to really believe you're the only woman who's 'worked w/men'... strange comment.

I think you stupidly misunderstand what I say just to see how I respond. I clearly meant that as a means of avoiding the cattiness in some part of my life.

I heard a definition of the word "slut" once that goes something like "A slut is a woman who'll **** everyone but you!"

Originally Posted by yguy

Like Hell you do. You just couldn't find anyt fault with it, so you had to manufacture one.

I'm interested in getting at the truth, not finding fault.

Originally Posted by Jarlaxle

Uhh...I believe that UOTG is a woman.

You believe what you want. I kid her I think she's a man. I am now coming around to believing she is in fact female, as few men have a head that spins round like this.

Originally Posted by Up On the Governor

Get off your pedestal. Jesus tap-dancing Christ. Ridiculous...

In a while some trying times will come along and if you have to rely on your other half, a man with a brain and some idea of how to behave, is better than one without.

Later, everything you do in your leisure time, on holidays etc is with your partner. If he doesn't have something interesting to say and doesn't have decent manners, it will grate on you. And if your conversations don't interest you, it's a long, tedious life listening to his rude noises.

Giving myself away as being a different woman? No (*)(*)(*)(*). You and I are cut from a different mold. To think that everyone has to conform to being like you is a little disappointing. I thought better of you. I don't think you know what you want out of "equality" because you should be happy women like me exist. You know, we have made our way in an industry dominated by men. A culture that drowns in testosterone. Are you not proud of women's achievements? Or do I need to waste hundreds of dollars on shoes and makeup, read Better Homes and Gardens, and scream if there is a common house spider on my vanity in order to appease other females?

Calm down for feck sake, if you want to be a woman, you're a woman, all right. Why do you care what I think?

We are different, but you also have to consider being tolerant of women who are girly. Being equal is equality to be what we are and enjoy what we like, not to change and act like smelly men. If you want to sit about with men doing what they usually do when there are only other men around, go ahead. I don't and that's fine.

Of course I am happy you have freedom to do what you want with your life. Remember, I am older than you and my generation was the generation which made that possible, or rather which actually put it into effect. Even in my group of friends there are many, many firsts for women in this area. Working on teams with men, being one.

However, I think you spend more on shoes than I as I recall you have ginormous big feet. Shoes are not an interest of mine (I have what I need, if you know what I mean) and most are issue, not chosen. Makeup is not a waste of money, it's a vocation and a pleasure to all if tastefully applied. I would read House and Garden to see the pictures, but wouldn't buy it I don't like spiders when they move, but I sometimes watch them and don't kill them. I would if I had to. It's just against my ethics to kill anything which doesn't need to be killed.

And it's possible they don't speak that way to you because you would get pissed and rant about how they are trying to box you out of the workforce.

No, most of them respect women in their way and they don't let other guys disrespect women either. Of course that is the culture where I work, they are left in no doubt about what is expected. This may change, as I'm changing workplace this month and will be working in what is known locally as "Castle Greyskull" ...with the barbarian hordes. Let you know how that goes.

Vulgarity doesn't put us at a disadvantage. How did you even come up with that?

I think most women have come up against that. Are you sure you're a woman...? ...oh calm down...

I am, but the funny thing about most women is...they hate other women. Especially if the other woman is nothing like them. At least I work with men...

It would be fair to say I prefer working with men apart from the harassment bit, they are quite practical and don't muck about workwise, are very much more direct, easy to get along with, they don't hold grudges or clique or make you go to Marks and Spencers all the time. Older men can be different, if there is a pack of them they whine like the worst women and everything annoys them. No offence to the old men.

Originally Posted by Up On the Governor

Ugh. Here we go. No one is touchy except you who's predictably defensive. I know how I come across. It's not normal and I can see how sensitive people misinterpret it as "touchy." You'll learn it eventually.

Not taking sides, but you are touchy.

Of course I set you off...

Originally Posted by Viv

I'm interested in getting at the truth, not finding fault.

Then you are best served by forbearing to ascribe to me assumptions I never made.

Originally Posted by Up On the Governor

Ugh. Here we go. No one is touchy except you who's predictably defensive. I know how I come across. It's not normal and I can see how sensitive people misinterpret it as "touchy." You'll learn it eventually.

First of all, I never said I liked the conversations. Where did you pull that bull(*)(*)(*)(*) from? You clearly missed the point I made about being respected as "one of them" and chose to focus on poop conversations. Weird. Secondly, assuming the males I work and associate with are of "lesser intelligence" is where you stepped off the (*)(*)(*)(*)wagon. Laugh out loud.


It is true in the real world.


I think you stupidly misunderstand what I say just to see how I respond. I clearly meant that as a means of avoiding the cattiness in some part of my life.

One of the things you certainly need to learn is to own your own words instead of this juvenile stuff of trying hard to shift the blame around...... and you make yourself look even sillier w/other silly comments like 'women hate women' and 'at least I work w/men'...... you don't get out much, do you?

Oh well .... not my problem - have a good day.

Originally Posted by RiseAgainst

My mother divorced my father after 21 years of marriage. She is a Republican. He slaved half his life away to provide for her, and us. He never touched her. Was never verbally abusive with her. He never cheated on her. He did everything for her. The liberal assault on women and the family unit doesn't just impact liberal women, but all of them. Liberals are the enemy of mankind.

Your post doesn't even make sense. Was your father a liberal or Republican? What is your point? Just because your father (which we don't know if he was liberal/conservative) didn't abuse your mother (Republican) in no way has anything to do with what Republican legislators are doing. Making up bills for women to have to have transvaginal ultrasounds to have an abortion (which is legal, by the way), making up bills (which passed, by the way) that will hurt innocent children and women, trying to keep birth control pills from being covered by insurance while protecting Viagra (which is covered by insurance), calling women who use contraceptives sluts and defending the ones that say it. You need a wake-up call.

- this means children's health care is most likely one of the programs in danger, since it's a benefit of currently existing domestic partnerships. Families could end up struggling to meet basic needs, not just for unmarried couples but for young, defenseless children.

Not to mention there are even more stark consequences for women. Domestic partnerships also allow couples to be protected against domestic violence through laws associated with the partnerships. The amendment could allow abusers even more access to their victims and take away any legal rights to fight against these attacks. In an era where women are already subjected to invasive, unnecessary medical procedures as a roadblock to health care they seek, why would anyone want to take away even more dignity and rights from women?

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/0...n-and-children

Originally Posted by Viv

I'm interested in getting at the truth, not finding fault.



You believe what you want. I kid her I think she's a man. I am now coming around to believing she is in fact female, as few men have a head that spins round like this.



In a while some trying times will come along and if you have to rely on your other half, a man with a brain and some idea of how to behave, is better than one without.

Later, everything you do in your leisure time, on holidays etc is with your partner. If he doesn't have something interesting to say and doesn't have decent manners, it will grate on you. And if your conversations don't interest you, it's a long, tedious life listening to his rude noises.



Calm down for feck sake, if you want to be a woman, you're a woman, all right. Why do you care what I think?

We are different, but you also have to consider being tolerant of women who are girly. Being equal is equality to be what we are and enjoy what we like, not to change and act like smelly men. If you want to sit about with men doing what they usually do when there are only other men around, go ahead. I don't and that's fine.

Of course I am happy you have freedom to do what you want with your life. Remember, I am older than you and my generation was the generation which made that possible, or rather which actually put it into effect. Even in my group of friends there are many, many firsts for women in this area. Working on teams with men, being one.

However, I think you spend more on shoes than I as I recall you have ginormous big feet. Shoes are not an interest of mine (I have what I need, if you know what I mean) and most are issue, not chosen. Makeup is not a waste of money, it's a vocation and a pleasure to all if tastefully applied. I would read House and Garden to see the pictures, but wouldn't buy it I don't like spiders when they move, but I sometimes watch them and don't kill them. I would if I had to. It's just against my ethics to kill anything which doesn't need to be killed.



No, most of them respect women in their way and they don't let other guys disrespect women either. Of course that is the culture where I work, they are left in no doubt about what is expected. This may change, as I'm changing workplace this month and will be working in what is known locally as "Castle Greyskull" ...with the barbarian hordes. Let you know how that goes.



I think most women have come up against that. Are you sure you're a woman...? ...oh calm down...



It would be fair to say I prefer working with men apart from the harassment bit, they are quite practical and don't muck about workwise, are very much more direct, easy to get along with, they don't hold grudges or clique or make you go to Marks and Spencers all the time. Older men can be different, if there is a pack of them they whine like the worst women and everything annoys them. No offence to the old men.



Not taking sides, but you are touchy.

Of course I set you off...

Well said.....

At the risk of being accused of being 'prissy' again lol .... do I dare admit vulgarities/cussing wasn't allowed in my home? And absolutely not around my kids and when they got older, not from them either.... yup! I was a mean ol' mom... lol.