Just borrowed a copy of “Why Men Marry (*)(*)(*)(*)(*)es” by Sherry Argov. I’ve been having a strong interest in how modesty actually works with women. Like all other women I grew up with mix messages, we didn’t want to be oppressed yet obviously we didn’t want to set ourselves up to be exploited. Who really was happier the prudish wife or the loose whore? A deeper understanding of modesty allows women to be more conscientious how they dress and more cautious in the message they send men.

“When women look at clothing, we see colors, fabrics, and styles. What do men see? Whether or not you are a mental challenge. That’s why you hear men talk about nurse fantasies or the girl-next-door or librarian types. If a woman wears something that doesn’t ‘show all her stuff,’ like jeans and a sweater, what a guy reads is: “It’s not on display for you. You have to work a little to get this.” When a woman shows a little, but not all, a buy infers that the sexy parts of her are “privileged” areas. And her stock goes up. P. 16
“When a man sees you wearing very revealing clothes, he’ll usually assume you don’t have anything else going for you.” p.17
“Remember, if you show up wearing a rhinestone thong pulled up to your hips on the first date, and on the next date you’re sporting a miniskirt that could double as a tube top from the children’s department, he’ll see you as community property. “Any guy can get to it, so I’m not special if I get her.”p 18

The book is interesting on how media targeted to women destroys women’s self confidence in relationships with sex tips on always pleasing him in bed while men will use this for their short-term advantage to toy with women, since they’re bored with your personality they’ll see how far you will go to humiliate yourself. The current sexperts claims to constantly ‘wow’ him to save your marriage, but it seems there is strong evidence that being that ‘(*)(*)(*)(*)(*)’ is what will make him remember why he married you


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