Sometimes my wife will refers to me as a "n!gger lover".

I for one have really learned to tolerate the word , I do not care if it is used in jest but I have grandchildren who are half black and I WILL NOT EVER let them be insulted by stupid people . I alway ask everyone to remember they are just kids.

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Tom T. Hall
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Then this would be a really good time to desensitize them to the word. Why would you want to make your children vulnerable to a word like that?

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Look, polite and well bred people do not use words that diminish others. However, there is a difference between saying that using such words displays a lack of class and saying that it shouldn't be allowed. Just take a quick look at what's happening in Canada and their human rights commissions. Hurt someone's feelings there and you get sanctioned and fined. Which is BS. The proper sanction when people use terms that diminish others is to shame them. Jesse Jackson is currently learning to eat crow and humble pie. Just about right.

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I do not understand? Are you saying I should use the N word around them?

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Aint but three things in this world thats worth a solitary dime,
But old dogs and children and watermelon wine.
Tom T. Hall
http://www.politicalforum.com/group.php?groupid=43

"Looks like we got ourselves another Nіgger Guy!"

http://www.videosift.com/video/South...eel-of-Fortune

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I'm saying you should not give it special emphasis. Dont treat it as a dirty word.

Why give it power at all? Words arent like knives or bullets...you make yourself vulnerable to words.

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Here's how the n-word got started.

i know it is just a word but kids are intune to the hate , They are well adjusted and happy , they will make it just fine

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Aint but three things in this world thats worth a solitary dime,
But old dogs and children and watermelon wine.
Tom T. Hall
http://www.politicalforum.com/group.php?groupid=43

Oh, is she black?