Are women who use their sexuality for personal gain any better than street whores?

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  1. Viv

    Viv Banned by Request

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    Do you have a problem with people (not women) who use dating agencies? To sift and find someone compatible.

    Your story is a good scandal, but who knows how accurate it is. It's entirely hearsay.
     
  2. Viv

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    :evileye:How is a woman ever to know if a man is interested in her as a person, or if he is just interested in getting into her pants? One is forced to go on the assumption the latter is 90% the case, until you get to know the person better. Unless you're daft.

    There are issues and risks for both parties entering a relationship. I'd have to suggest there are significantly more men who calculatedly just want a hit and run and to use a woman for a good time and then discard, than there are women sitting about calculatingly planning and researching and hitting on men who happen to be rich and also stupid and gullible.

    How many stupid rich men even exist? They can't be a great bet for hanging onto their money in any case, even without a conmanwoman.
     
  3. injest

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    nor do women only marry for money..they too marry for companionship.

    the only problem I have with this OP is that he didn't define or explain his terms...what is "using your sexuality" exactly? wearing makeup? wearing certain clothes? and are these behaviours designed just to get something or could they simply be how a woman IS?

    I am not sure what he is asking...
     
  4. Viv

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    ...men and women are the same. There are rats and widos at the edges of all society and we don't support that, although US may be more supportive of it than other communities due to the capitalist edge and the amount of equality women are afforded in that society. Plenty of times here when we have debated the sex industry a fair number of people think it is acceptable for women to participate in porn as long as they are making a profit from it and are not coerced. How do you expect that mentality to translate into everyday life?
     
  5. jack4freedom

    jack4freedom Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    I agree with you 100% on all of these astute assertions. I also do not have much sympathy for anyone who is duped and bilked by a conperson of either gender, as a good con usually works on pompous twits with overbloated egos....

    Cheers
     
  6. ryanm34

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    And a woman who chooses a partner with one eye on his bank account does not also marry for companionship?


    The world has run along those lines for centuries, Stong/rich man marries beautiful/rich woman. That has been "traditional marriage" for hundreds of years.

    Do I feel bad for the guy who marries a girl 30 years his junior only for her to divorce him and take half his money? Or the woman who marries a guy has 3 kids with him puts on 30 pounds and gives him 15-20 years only to be divorced for a younger prettier model? Yeah.

    Do I condemn the person who goes into a shallow relationship with their eyes open? No.

    How two people end up together, the basis for their relationship is none of my concern.

    I hear a lot of condemnation of beautiful women for enter into such shallow relationships. I hear (*)(*)(*)(*) little about the men who do. The OP is misogynistic. Men never use their sexuality for personal gain?

    Live your own life worry about your own relationships. Leave others to find what happiness they can however they chose to.
     
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    Oh please, you act like most women are blood sucking vampires. You think women only marry for money and attractiveness, and not companionship?

    Are there some vamps and male counterparts? Yeah, but they're not as predominate as you portray. Also, any such behavior isn't new, so using your logic, society was never together to fall apart.
     
  8. Lil Mike

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    This thread has really gone off the rails, although I suppose the fact that the OP seemed to have a recent experience that left him somewhat bitter might have something to do with it.

    The fact is, female hypergamy seems to be biologically based, but how it's expressed is dependent on the culture and the individual life experiences of the person. It's not a bad thing, it's a survival mechanism for women. Men like big boobs and a nice ass, women like power and big, throbbing wallets. They are both attractive to the other and I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

    That's why you have such a dearth of marriages among highly educated and successful women. The more successful a woman is, the fewer the pool of men who are more successful than she is.
     
  9. Up On the Governor

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    Yeah, instead of making a stupid thread on a message board, grab a bottle of Jack and play XBox. You will cope with whatever blew sand into your vagina better.

    Those women are immature and unable to properly communicate. Why did you make an emotionally-charged thread based on a small percentage of women?

    Amen.

    It goes both way. So how about both genders stop being dip(*)(*)(*)(*)s and communicate effectively.

    Man: I like you.
    Woman: I like you too.

    Oh wait. People lie to get what they want. Back to square one, but at least you now know neither gender can tell what is real or fake.

    Wisest words posted here.

    That is kind of a stupid assumption-- to assume my fiancé is more "successful" than I am.
     
  10. Lil Mike

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    I don't know you or your fiancé so don't take personal offense at a general statement. There are, I'm sure, a few outliers in which, for example, a female lawyer is married to a male DMV clerk. I would just assume it's rare.
     
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    yes because they do it legally in marriage rather than illegaly on the streets, they are high class.
     
  12. frodly

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    Are street whores any worse than you? If so, by what standard? Please actually explain in detail, don't just give me a knee-jerk reaction and say yes!!
     
  13. Paris

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    Yes, and they are usually a lot more profitable.
     
  14. Hummingbird

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    Why would I have a problem w/dating agencies? Why do you ask? If this is what some people want and it works for them - fine. I know a gal who's widowed SIL joined one and met a guy - they got along great. Then he died.

    "Heresay"? The friend who told me has been friends w/this 'obit' gal for decades and she told Shirley how she found her husbands.....

    Some women can be just as devious as some men........
     
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    She said she said... That's hearsay. Twice over.
     
  16. Hummingbird

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    Easy. Don't jump in bed w/him on your first date.... or 2nd or 3rd or 4th.....

    If he keeps coming back after you keep saying 'no'... it could be that he really likes you as a person and wants to be w/you .... or does that sound to 'old-fashioned'?
     
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    Why are you taking this so personally?
     
  18. Up On the Governor

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    Who said I am taking it personally? The point of the post is that it is really stupid to make sweeping generalizations. Not even sure why people do it in today's age. Oh, do you assume I am taking it personally because I come across as aggressive? Not a new story, so kindly ****.
     
  19. Hummingbird

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    Wow. LOL! For sure, someone hit a nerve............
     
  20. Up On the Governor

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    Are you trolling? No one hit a nerve. I am not sure how you think I am any different from any other post. Do you expect special treatment from me? Stop acting like a delicate little flower...


    ...and ****.
     
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    LOL! This is really getting funny .... lol. Do I expect 'special treatment' from you? Not hardly! Why should I? .....lol.

    You angrily brought yourself and your fiancee into this thread & that's why I asked you why you were taking this thread personally.... get over yourself.

    Oh yes, that 'delicate little flower' really cracked me up. Thanks for the laugh...
     
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    Then I wouldn't be shocked by how I post if I were you. But I'm not, otherwise we would not have to have this conversation.

    Angrily? There is no anger. None. Zip. Zero. Where the hell are you getting anger from? I used myself as an example because it is the quickest way to shoot that generalization down. Get over myself? Absolutely no reason to. I love myself.

    Well, it is funny. I am good that way. But let's not pretend you're not delicate.
     
  23. frodly

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    How is a woman supposed to know if when a man acts interested in her if the interest is real or fake? Are they genuinely interested, or do they just want to have sex? We all have our ways of getting what we want, you judging the object of our desires is a normative assumption that not all people share!!
     
  24. SiliconMagician

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    Honestly, I've taken the rather nihilistic option that I don't trust women or take anything they say at face value.

    They don't want to be housekeepers, but they don't want to be providers either.

    They want to have children, but don't want to put in the sacrifice of life and effort it takes to do the job properly themselves so see a nanny or other stand in as a viable parental alternative.

    People say "oh you are generalizing"

    Those people obviously never spent years trolling the singles bars and talked with literally hundreds of single women and picked apart their psychology.

    If men are "hitting it and quitting it" in higher numbers than ever, its becuase women have nothing to offer a man except as sex objects and that is what I'm pretty much seeing these days.

    Women have become lousy companions who aren't worth keeping around for longer than a few weeks or months before they begin to stick those feminist claws in a man's wallet despite having a wallet of their own.
     
  25. Makedde

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    Exactly. I read a study in the paper the other day, asking people when they thought it was okay to take things to the next level. I was shocked and disgusted that a majority seemed to think it was okay to have sex either on the first, second, or third date.

    WTF is wrong with people that they would screw someone without bothering to get to know them first?
     

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