The difficulty in talking to you is that I have no idea where you are from . Is it Sweden or Lithuania ?
I imagine you are actually Russian and escaped conscription into the Army by fleeing to relatives or friends in Lithuania .When it seemed you were being reported to the authorities , you fled to Sweden -- just like the American Boys did , to escape fighting in Vietnam .
You need to own up to your past Hatpin and cleanse your soul .
As for the UK letting anybody down .Whom?
Certainly not Sweden , and Lithuania is such a den of organised crime and Russian gangsters that I cannot think of a reason for anybody helping them until we can see that they have grown up and can be trusted .
Now , what is your problem ?
PS I have been in both Vilnius and Kaunas but am still waiting for a beautiful woman to invite me to Klaipeda to spend a summer on the great beaches .