I'm Sorry Ladies But...

Discussion in 'Women's Rights' started by Tram Law, Oct 14, 2014.

  1. Tram Law

    Tram Law Banned

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    I really like looking at female bodies.

    Because let's face it, the female body is mother nature's finest work of art.

    There's so many varieties and so much beauty there.

    I do understand that looking makes you feel uncomfortable.

    So i will look from a distance so that you won't know I'm looking out of consideration for your feelings.
     
  2. HonestJoe

    HonestJoe Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Hey! My body is a work or art too. It's Picasso crossed with Dali but that's still art! :cool:
     
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    One Mind Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    If they didn't want to be looked at, they would try to look like mother Teresa.

    If men didn't want to be looked at, they would act like Pee Wee Herman, instead of cocks of the walk strutting about, going to the gym.

    It is a very screwed up superficial world we live in. Thankfully we all get old and uglier, the body goes to hell, and we get put into our place, if we live long enough. In the end we all end up a bunch of rotting flesh and bones, which I think is good. For it shows just how silly we are.
     
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    I'm not sure. I'm not an expert, but from listening to women the only time they get offended when a male looks at them is if that male is, "creepy," and by creepy I think they mean someone who isn't attractive and wealthy or attractive or wealthy. I'm notreally sure??????

    If you're actually attractive it's been my experience that attractive women actually get offended if you don't look at them-no kidding....
     
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    Who are you talking to?
     
  6. tecoyah

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    In my experience...most women worth looking at actually enjoy it when we do, and tend to wear clothing to ensure we do so.
     
  7. Tram Law

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    Nobody specific, just the general audience.

    With a fair bit of ambiance.

    So now you've got the audience ambiance.
     
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    Looking makes feminists uncomfortable.

    It also makes a wife uncomfortable if her husband is ogling women in front of her.
     
  9. Tandi

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    No, fashion isn't a reflection on sexual availability, and just because someone is considered attractive doesn't mean they don't mind being objectified.
     
  10. Tram Law

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    Actually sometimes it is. Sometimes a woman wants to dress to draw attention to her so she can get laid. And then there's the psychology of color.
     
  11. Tandi

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    Um, granted? But fashion, in and of itself, is not an advertisement of a woman's sexual availability. In fact, a woman's sexual availability, and any real advertisement of it, is not an invitation for you to cat call her or gawk at her in public.
     
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    tecoyah Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Nor did I suggest it is....Perhaps you could attempt to understand my commentary rather than bastardizing it to your own meaning?
     
  13. Tandi

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    Okay then what did you mean? I see no other way to interpret your statement.
     
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    " In My Experience"= opinion based on personal observation
    "Most women worth looking at"= many but not all attractive females.
    "Actually enjoy it when we do"= Attractive humans are often proud of being so.
    "And tend to wear clothing to ensure we do so"= When presenting themselves in public, attractive women tend to highlight the aspects of themselves that will attract the attention of a possible mate, as all humans will do.

    I am in no way criticizing this, as I find it quite pleasant and in fact enjoy it very much when my beautiful wife gets dressed up for a night out...even though I am well aware that by doing so she will draw the stares of competing males.
     
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    You basically said that people who dress a certain way want to be stared at.
     
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    Whether they are men or women any person who is dressing up in an attractive manner....OF COURSE THEY WANT TO BE LOOKED AT!!! LOL!!!

    If people didn't then they would never wear anything but a dirty T-shirt and sweat pants! LOL!!

    AboveAlpha
     
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    so do you like when she dresses like that and goes out alone?
     
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    I don´t understand why in America is so "taboo" to see the beautiful body of a beautiful woman on the beach or in the streets, pubs etc or to say her something nice ..Women are the most beautiful creature in the nature. It's a pity Feminism is so totalitarian movement. Leave it to nature is always best.
     
  19. Gatewood

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    Really? Then someone should tell hookers and porn actresses that they are doing it wrong since they deliberately dress in order to invite sexual attention and a commercially-based exchange of physical activities that are -- gasp! -- based on arousal and usually at least partly kicked into gear according to specific mode of dress. Come to that, no female dresses plain potatoes when she's feeling amorous and intends to go on the prowl either to flaunt her physical assets or to actually score. Weird, eh?
     
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    She does not go out alone, I make damn sure of that.
     
  21. Tandi

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    There are a thousand reasons to want to look good that have nothing to do with sex. Are you familiar with the concept of social status?

    If you assume that, because a woman is dressing a certain way, that she is trying to invite sexual attention, then you're wrong. Simple as that.

    Also the capslock button is not your friend. It makes you look like a fourteen year old.
     
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    This is a strange and baffling response.

    This is a non-sequitur.
     
  23. Tandi

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    Because commenting on someone's body is sexual. You're not complementing their shoes, you're telling them their physical body makes you aroused. Sex is an intimate, private affair in our society and so making uninvited sexual comments forces intimacy onto someone who doesn't want it.
     
  24. Gatewood

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    Ah well . . . intellectual discourse is not for everyone.
     
  25. Karma Mechanic

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    So you control her life.
     

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